what kind of act could suffice for giving head??? im jus lookin for more ways (and how) to give my bf some more pleasure since we havent had sex yet and i dont give head. im sure nothing can replace it, but some kind of techniques should at least come close????
I don't know any softer way of putting this, but nothing else comes close. The best stuff that goes on during sex is in you and your lover's minds, not in your genitals, and he knows you're either willing to do that for him, or you aren't. So don't insult him by searching for a poor substitute. Either learn to give head, or find a man who doesn't like oral sex.
Do you think you'll ever want him to go down on you? Man, I can't imagine not giving a blowjob.. It's so freakin' hot.
Yeah, I might have to have you come over from time to time j/k - even my fiance seems unwilling to give oral sex (at least for now). She just thinks the dick is unclean or something - I thought it was from a previous boyfriend, but she told me its not, its just that that's the way she thinks... and that when she thinks of sex, she thinks of pure FUCKING, but no oral. Though she certainly doesn't mind it when I give it to her lol Anyway, its a weird situation, I don't mind the fucking at all, but i wouldn't mind if she liked to do oral.
In all honesty, I would give a bj and not expect anything in return.. That alone, is enough to get me off.. I've had men who didn't like giving oral and that was fine with me, but I sure as hell gave it to them.
I'm the same way with girls. I LOVE giving a girl oral, but I'm not demanding when it comes to receiving it. If she wants to give me a blowjob, that's great, but if not, that isn't a big deal.
there's nothing like getting a nice bit of head, except for maybe a spliff in one hand, a stella in the other and a girl between ur laps. i can't think of any other "methods" that come close to be honest... doggystyle all the way though when it comes to tha penetration
somebody tell her that the penis (washed in the shower, tucked away in underwear, used only as a conduit for sterile water [alright, with some uric acid added - to cleanse impurities]) is about the cleanest part of the male body! Ten times as clean as the mouth, which she may be kissing. A dog's mouth is far less germy. Meanwhile, Adgreyga, and while you are mulling that over in your mind - try a hand job. Sorry, sweetheart, but I'd be gone by now.
I not only love it, I've found it's just a good idea, "The Right Thing To Do," as Wilford Brimley would say. It seems I can pretty much estimate our degree of sexual compatibility from a woman's taste, smell, and probably her pheromones, for all I know. Of course, once my face is in that position, it's a little impolite to go, "Feh! Never mind!" Even so, there was one time I had to stop it right there. The poor girl's juices were like acid on my skin! I don't know if there was something wrong with her, or if our body chemistries were just completely incompatible, but I didn't stick around to find out.
May i suggest giving a Hand Job as a substitute. If a woman plays with my penis and uses her hand to get me off.......I find that extremely pleasurable. Sure i prefer her giving head but if done right a hand job can also be real real Hot!! I have had a g/f in the past who just simply didn't feel comfortable with giving head. I didn't break up with here because of that. Instead she made me shoot real good with her hands only. Plus.......i got to give to her orally.....which i prefer over receiving anyway Paul
Sweetie, he probably plays it off that way, but if it goes too long his mind may wander. I'm talking from experience here. If he's giving, he's wanting something in return. I don't mean to sound like a pig or whatnot, and I don't know what the two of you ARE doing, but if he's not getting something back, there may not be much incentive for him to stay with you. For some guys, giving is enough, but for most guys they want something back.
one of my ex girlfriends wasn't really into giving head... she would do it if I asked her but never did it on her own... however, of the stuff she did do (when she was on her period) was amazing... i find that sometimes when a girl plays with my balls and gently strokes my shaft it can be quite entertaining... just a question though... have you ever even tried giving head?
Here's one that my girl does usually before going down & it feels great. I'll be laying on my back with her kind of laying to the side of me. She'll be making out with me,kissing my face & neck & with her hand,she'll softly run it from my chest,down to stomach,over my cock & lightly over my balls then back up. It's an amazing feeling & I won't even care if I get BJ or not. She gets me moaning so loud with the feeling of being kissed everywhere & the softness of her touch across my body & over my genitals. Guarantee you he will love it.
If you feel like you want to please your partner, but do not want to give have a BJ, or engage in traditional intercourse, first know that it is not your duty. It is a right. And if you choose to use that right, a common replacement would be a HJ, which can be extremely pleasurable, but more importantly, dont be afraid to ask him what he wants other than sex, and a BJ. Knowing how creative guys can be with sex, he will come up with something. The key is experimentation. --Kidd--
this is a funny topic. I dont really have any inhibitions so i wouldnt know what it's like to not wanna give head. maybe you should become a lesbian?
to be honest with my ex i use to hate it and found it an awful chore i hated the taste and thought of the act, but now with somebody else and the chemistry is just there all the time i love love love going down on him, he taste so good and to make a man moan with my lips and tongue is just a good feeling
