This past weekend my boyfriend and I were at a party with some old friends we haven't seen in awhile. We had a few drinks and stayed the night in a room in the basement. I put my bra and panties in the chair next to the bed. Early morning the next day I got called in to work, so my boyfriend and I got our things in a rush and left the house. At this point I should add that when I was getting together, I took out fresh undergarments (bra and panties) out of my purse and put them on. Later that day, our friend (owner of the house) calls me and asks if I left any "delicates" in his basement. Utterly and completely embarassed, I realized that as I was getting ready for work in a rush, I competely forgot to stuff the ...used... bra and panties in my purse.... I told him that I was very embarassed and that I should've been more mindful, but that I was gonna come right over to pick it up. He doesn't live very far, so when I got to his house about 15 minutes after the phone call, I walked in and was in shock. He, and 2 of his friends, which I have known for 5+ years, were trying on my bra and thong panties over their clothes, and taking photos with their phones. I was so embarassed, I must've turned red like a tomato. Then they told me that earlier they were playing with my panties and taking pictures of it.... I felt humiliated. I took my things and left. I then messaged my boyfriend and shortly told him about their little "photoshoot" and how that made me feel disrespected. He became very angry and called to tell these guys how low he thought they were. The thing is, these guys are in their late 20's, and I have known them since high school and considered them to be close friends. I would have never imagined that they would humiliate me so. What's even worse is I feel bad to telling my boyfriend who also considered them his friends. I think that what they did not only was a sign of disrespect to me, but also to my boyfriend. Who does that??? How old are they, really! Tell me please, am I overthinking this too much? Next time I see them should I mention something, should I be cold shouldered, or should I just act like nothing happened???
I think you're overthinking it a little. bra and thong? no big deal. I would just laugh it off. no reason to be embarrassed. It sounds like they were just guys being guys.
You're over thinking it. It's just some underwear. I don't think they meant to disrespect you. Its just boys being silly boys. I would have laughed, Comment on how wonderful they look in them, and went on my way. Hahaha. Hell, I probably wounldn't have even picked them up that day. Hahaha
what a shitty position to put your boyfriend in. either get in a fight with girlfriend, or call up all your friends and yell at them for absolutely no reason whatsoever. lose/lose.
they did not humiliate you...they humiliated themselves...they are just too childish to know it...you humiliated yourself by leaving them behind for all too see...take some responsibility for your own 'fucking' actions... ...a real lady would not get into this situation because a real lady wouldnt be getting slammed in the basement of a house after a party and leave her ginch hanging around like an exhibit
They probably did it in part cos they knew you where the type to chuck a hissy fit over stupid shit. Then you'd run tell your boyfriend who they knew is so whipped he'd chuck a hissy fit on your behalf. How old are they? How old are you? Who are you anyway, 1 post? THIS is your first post? Troll is a dual
