On the verge of my third divorce

I’m 53 and am about to get divorced for the third time. I’ve had a knack over the years for picking the wrong woman. They’ve all had severe psychological, emotional and some mental issues. I don’t know why I’ve been picking these women. I guess I’ve been the rescue the damsel in distress type of guy. I’ve finally figured this out and am changing and fixing myself and my life. I’ve been having an affair with a normal wonderful woman whom loves me for quite some time now and I think I’m actually in love with her. I’ve never actually been in love with anyone and thought that maybe I wasn’t capable of it but I think I am. I look forward to a real and growing, flourishing loving relationship with this woman. However, I won’t ever get married again, lol.

 

Good luck with this new relationship. Make sure she knows you don't want to get married again. I am kind of in the same kind of predicament where I don't know what it's like to have a healthy relationship.

 

:-(

 

Thanks. She knows and doesn’t want to get married again either. Exactly, I’ve never had a healthy relationship. I so want one and am determined to get it right this time.

 

That is rare to find. Hang on to it. I really hope it all works out for you.

 

Thank you

 

Anytime. : )