Ok people... lets be honest! What do you really want?

What do you really want in a partner, in a lover, in your soul mate? What really gets your blood flowing? What turns you on? And I dont mean sexually. What do you want deep down inside? What is it about somebody that would just make you drop everything just run away with them? What is it that might get you completely head over heals in love? Tell me, what is "true love" to you?

Be honest! Speak from the heart! Dont post a bullited list either! I want you to write it out like you mean it! Lets get the creative juices flowing!

I have a lot to say, but I want to see what you all are made of before I do!

 

Sorry for the overflow of enthusiasm! haha Im kinda weird sometimes.

 

I want a girl who is fun, creative, smart, cute. She needs to be confident in her skin and get possessive at just the right times. She needs to have the same morals as me and be a generally good person. She must have an open mind that can educate me and that can be educated. That'll about do it for me

 

He's so patient with me, but doesn't let me run him over. I've never had both of those qualities in someone. we're incredibly compatible.
I had moe writen, but then re-read it and realized I was buzzed and needed to delete it.

 

I think the best thing is to be on the same level with someone. I would like my gf to understand everything about me while i understand everything about her. I would love to be 3 months into a relationship and still feel "head over heels" for her when yall are around eachtoher. I want to be with a girl who when we 1st meet, we make that eye contact and make it obvious to the surrounding people that we just made love at 1st sight. I want a girl who will do what I like even though she does like it, but will do it becuz she knows I like it...and of course i would be glad to do tha same with her.

 

For true love to develop there is almost always a strong physical attraction, but this is what inititiates love--it is elongated, if you will, with deeper emotional, intellectual, and psychosocial connections. This means sharing with one another viewpoints, to be in agreement, but also to learn something new, to have your reality slightly altered in a beneficial mind-expanding way.

First there is desire which is strongly influenced by the sex hormones; testosterone is king (also involved is LH, FSH, estradiol/estradione, androstenedione/androsentediol, progesterone). Once there is eye contact, reciprocity, and soon enough physical intimacy, there is a rush of excitement, and at times a more subtle euphoria. Likely it involves phenylethylamine, norepinephrine, or dopamine, subtle touches release oxytocin, and overtime a feeling of security may be mediated by endorphins and enkephalins. This is countered by the anxiety of the stress hormones. What one experiences is a mild anxiety when away from the loved one and a natural comfortable high when coupling commences. This is a key indicator of true love; missing your mate. Yet in a healthy, loving relationship, time away from one's mate only has transient stressful or sad moments. There are also triggers that bring back the feeling of love, such as when alone or with others. The experience of positive social dynamics fascilitated by a SO are tied together with the serotonin system --often in concert with dopamine and norepinephrine. This serves to further reinforce the pleasure associated with your SO in a multiplicity of circumstances.

 

I need lots of attention. So, a guy who pays attention to me is first on my list, but that doesn't mean I want to be smothered. There are times when I just need to be left alone. If he knows when to do this, then he's great. I need someone creative, with off-the-wall ideas and similar beliefs to mine. I need someone with an open-mind. He has to love animals and be good with children (that paternal thing is sooo hot). A guy who can make me laugh has the key to my heart.

He should support my dreams and encourage them, and I will do the same for him. Someone who is ambitious and has things he wants to do. Someone who can criticize without being an asshole, and is intelligent.

If he's a writer or artist, I want to work with him, create with him. I want to know what we can do together. I guess that could be a good means of testing how well we compromise.

Ultimately, I want someone I could consider my best friend, someone I could be with, and we wouldn't have to say anything... we could just enjoy being together. I want someone who inspires me and gives me butterflies when he says my name or brightens my whole day when he laughs. I want someone who when they're gone for long periods of time, I miss them, someone I am thankful for every single minute of every single day of my life. And who I fall even more in love with as time goes on.

More than anything, I want that to be unconditional and real and forever.

(I ramble.... lol)

 

Now that is what I wanted to hear. We are finally getting somewhere.

True love, is that unavoidable first kiss, and that inescapable parting embrace. It is that anxious moment before we meet, and that lingering touch as as we walk away. An inexplicable passion that burns in the deepest recesses of your heart. True love is a single soul dwelling in two bodies.

There is only one thing I yearn for; and that is passion. Intense passion. Passion in every moment and every thought. Passion for life, passion for love, passion for learning, and a passion laughter.

 

you said so much i would have said so maybe i'll ramble on from where you rambled off
i want someone who understands me & really lets me in to understanding her
someone who dreams big dreams but brings me back to reality when dreams are just too big
someone who sees life through eyes of wonder
but doesnt drift away chasing every passing butterfly
someone who is deeply loving & accepting caring beyond the limmits of most people i come across everyday
someone whos not selfish or spoiled but is thankful
someone who is happy with who they are
& i could go on rambling
& i want someone who appreciates a good ramble

 

Oh yeah, all that stuff, too. And I liked what Zendragon said... passion, lots and lots of passion.

 

absolutely but passionate about many things, life especialy
wow yes i just reread zens post & very well put
& ofcourse they dont have to be perfect we all have outr problems
but someone who is trying to be the best they can be

 

I have this thing for guys that are about 5`11'. Long brown hair, at least just below the shoulder. They are usually about 20-24yrs. old. No, I`m not going through a mid life-crisis, I just know now finally, what I want. They seem to be pieces( spelling?). Anyway, not thinking too straight tonight. I had a good friend whom I love very, very much. At the moment he is out of the picture, that sucks. Thanks to the idiot I was living with whom, I couldn`t stand, because everytime I didn`t do exactly what he wanted me to do, right then and there. I paid for it one way or another. He usually beat the shit out of me. Call that real love? Hell no it ain`t. I could tell you all alot more on that but, this isn`t the place. Anyway, true love is when this boy, Theo, came into my life and I will always!!!!!!! LOVE YOU THEO ROGERS. Anyway, he came into my life and turned me upside down, he has this beautiful voice, now he is 22yrs. old, but at the time he was 19yrs. old. His vioce was like the most beautiful song I have ever heard sung. But it was deep!!!. I told him one time how much his voice got to me. I would get hot flashes sooooo bad oh my God!!!! He would speak, and I would get the shakes!!! Anyway, he would look at me with these beautiful brown eyes. Undescribable,,,,BROWN!!! His Mom and Dad made the most beautiful boy ever. What sucks is his girlfriend has him now. Anyway..... we didn`t have to do anything and I felt sooooo dam close to him. At times it was like we were inside each others bodies, souls and spirits. There is a spirit world out here. I have had them contact me, more!!!!! than once. Some day we will all know the truth of things. But for now we have people in our lives. Some of us are lucky, to have these people or have had people in our lives, who are such a part of us, our minds and souls that no matter!!!! How far you go in your life that they will be there forever in your soul, you just.... can`t shake them, no matter how bad they want you to. It isn`t stalking, it is just a genuine, true love. When they put their arms around you and you feel soooo dam safe. When you can smell them in the air and it breaks your dam heart, because you love them soooo much, it kills you inside. But you don`t want to hurt them. So, you stay away, as much as you can. I met a boy who looks just like Theo, blew me away!!! At first I thought it was Theo, but the closer I got, I saw that it wasn`t. Over the past few weeks I had been talking to Matt, and he was quiet. Like Theo, tall like Theo, shy like Theo, could have almost been his twin. His place of employment closed up this past Tuesday at the mall in Plattsburgh New York. If anyone knows Matt, 5`11" alittle below the shoulder length, brown hair pulled back in a pony-tail. The most beautiful shy smile ever, besides yours Theo, and worked at The Deadsea cosmetic booth. I bought some things off of you, and it sucks that you and I can`t B.S. anymore because you are so dam nice there are not many people in this world, who are genuine, about themselves. Matt contact me at my e-mail..... Please!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Agreed, nobody is perfect. I simply ask that we be passionate about everything we do. Even if we dont do it well. Otherwise, whats the point? Anything worth doing is worth putting your heart and soul in to.

 

This is a such a hard question. I don't think I can really answer. I've thought I was in love quite a few times and they were all completely different types of girls. I can honestly say that I've only been in love with one girl before and unfortunately I never even went out with her. From the first time I met her I just had that feeling and I still do anytime I talk to her. She's like my best friend and it's hard sometimes not to just tell her how I feel, but I would rather have her as a friend, then nothing at all. But anyways, if I ever figure out the answer to this question, I'll be sure to inform you all.

 

My kind of guy would be a guy who actually looks like hes having a good time at a concert, one who works and very mature but wild when he wants to be, always wanting to do something, willing to get into the things i get into, joke around, have burping contests lol, romantic but dont give me compliments, i hate em, i blush alot, one who doesnt rush into sex, actually one who doesnt even mention sex in our convo, goofy, a teacher to me, baggy pants with the worn out shirt, and constuction boots turn me on a lot, shows me a man knows how to get down nd dirty on work

 

a feeling that there's a deep and compelling connection between us that defies description...an understanding and a recognition that transcends words.

 

I want a woman 'bout twice my wieght!
A ton of fun who packs a gun with all her other frieght!

 

I like that! That makes a ton of sense to me, and I've had that happen on occaision with people. Just this immediate understanding and fondness. It's like running into an old friend again, and not even missing a beat with them, no matter how long it's ben since you saw them. Yet, in reality, you've never even met this person in your life. It's surreal or etheral.

 

unconditional love.......

 

I want a guy who will crazy in love with me.
Adventurist, energic, dreamer, open about his feelings, brave, honest, intelegent, handsome, and to know how to give and take unconditional love.

(Never met one like this before)