last night I got wasted and fucked 4 guys. But I was SO fucked up that I don't know if three of them used condoms. There isn't a planned parenthood near me that I can get to and I don't actually have a doctor. What the fuck do I do? I'm afraid I could be pregnant or have an STD. Help in any way you can! Please!
Go to a drug store and pick up a pregnancy test.. Find yourself a doctor.. That's the reason I don't do drugs/drink.. I have too many things planned for myself.. I'd never want to fuck that up.. Next time you think you may be having sex stray away from getting wasted.. At times like that, you can barely think straight, and you have to be careful.. If you didn't plan it then my advice is if getting wasted is going to cause that kind of behavior, avoid it.. That's my opinion..
i'm not really sure what advice you're looking for..... you need to see a doctor and probably find a planned parenthood if you're poor. morning after pill would be good, and of course all kinds of STD tests. make sure you request an HIV test as well. you wont be able to know for a couple weeks probably if you're pregnant (depending on when you expect your period) and yes....... please try to avoid this kind of situation
wow.. ur a fucking whore... thats really fucked up and gross... and ur only 17? thats all I have to say
hey what ever happened to being open minded hipsters huh? Well first off I would like to start by saying, I hope you hd an awesome time!!! What an experience! and now for theserious part. 1, go and get the morning after pill from anywhere you can, doctor, family planning clinic, wherever you can, jump on the net and look up places you can go to get it. you have precisely 72 hours 2, having an aids test is a waste of time at this point it takes 3 months for the antibodies to show up in your system. Best to wait 3 months to have a test, unless you have any abnormal happenings like: strange bumps or blisters, abnormal bleeding or discharge or just anything weird down there! 3, There is no point in getting all worked up, whats done is done, getting an early pregnancy test just means you know earlier, even if you wait a week, its not going to change any outcome, you'll still either be pregnant or not and the decisions will still be the same. I say chill out about the pregnacy test for 2 weeks if youre not going to take the morning after pill and then do one. Finally, please get some contraception and USE CONDOMS, theyre cheap and worth their weight in platinum, even just for the piece of mind you get from using them
okay, they weren't all at the same time. 1, wait a while, then the next, wait a while, and so on. Not an orgy type thing. I'm only an occasional drinker, but when I drink, I drink a lot. This has never happened before and I will definitely try to stay out of such a position in the future. And I'm not proud of this- and I do have a lot planned for myself- but what happened happened whether I would do it over or not. I have to deal with it now because I can't go back in time and not drink those last beers. I just wanted some advice and help without hearing what a slut I am.
don't listen to the ppl that are calling names... they probably never had a rebellious or crazy thing happen to them in their lives... and if they did, they're hypocrites. thanks retro for pointing out that fact about hiv... i totally forgot that it takes so long for it to show up
Don't blame it on my father- I don't even know him (divorce before I was born). I am a perfect example of why overprotection is bad- I can never get out, so when I do, I go crazy. But I'm gonna try to get some EC. I called up some family planning clinics. I guess I'll wait on the HIV test, but what about other STDs? DO those take a while to show up, too?
it's also possible that maybe, just maybe, they might realise that a whore is an old fashioned named for a prostitute, and that as you didn't seem to be charging for your services jumping to the conclusion 'that women are whores' might be a bit hasty. also, it's just about feasible that they realise that everyone involved made the decision to get involved...so if they think think ill of you (and apparently ill of all women by way of that) they have to judge themselves too. to the original poster - i think you have enough on your plate without stressing about people judging you. if it's right for you then other people can get over themselves - what you do doesn't hurt them. but, if you want to keep doing what you are doing - SO use protection. Like retro said - condoms are absolutely worth their weight in gold. As for results from the last time, cross that bridge when you come to it. oh, if you don't want to carry on with it - don't regret your past, dwelling on it isn't going to change anything. Instead use it as a learning experience. I hope things all turn out ok
You are 17, you should know better. I hope you've learned a lesson, though it may have been the hard way.
You and Michael are BOTH fucking hypocrites! You've got the nerve to call her a "whore" for having had sex with four guys, yet neither of you say a goddamn thing about the four guys who took advantage of her intoxicated state and practically gang-raped her. Any one of those guys could have an STD -- or worse, HIV -- and not even know it. And you bash the girl? You fucking assholes! It's because of attitudes like yours that many women think men are all dogs. And as far as I'm concerned, the four guys who took advantage of that poor girl while she was under the influence are worse than dogs. -- Skeeter
this is pretty disgraceful; you may have done yourself a disservice. how the hell did this even happen? i can understand getting drunk and accidentally having sex with one person, but FOUR? how did you manage that? what were you doing? seriously, one in every four people have an STD, so statistically speaking, they got you--particularly if you weren't protected. STDs take a while to show up, some may take up to 6 months maybe even longer. don't bother with the HIV test until at least 3 months have gone by--it might not show up for 6 months though and you could be contagious the entire time. in a few weeks you may be able to test for the clap and some of the others "less serious" ones.... consider yourself lucky if you get through this one without an STD or pregnancy. i definitely hope you learned something. but i hope you end up okay.
As RetroGroove_Grrl suggested, I would wait to see a doc in about 3 months about std issues, unless you notice any irregular issues down there -- rash, itching, excessive and/or discolored discharge, new bumps, etc. Definitely go to a doctor you can talk to -- for you, planned parenthood might be a better choice than if you had a regular family doc anyway, since you definitely don't want this getting back to the parents. But be honest that you were drunk and don't know if you were protected or not, tell them when it happened (and that you waited for the 3 month window for HIV to show up), then ask what else you need to do. I would assume that anything else you may have caught will have shown up by then, but I'm by far no expert on this. The doc will be an expert on that, tho, and will tell you if you need to come back in a few months for more tests. Regardless of the reactions you've gotten from some asswipes here, no decent doc will put you down (if one does, walk out and go to a different one), so don't worry about being honest. They've heard far worse than anything you have done. Definitely expect an earful about the risks you took, but there's a huge difference between making one bad bad decision (getting drunk without a buddy to stop you from doing something stupid) and being a whore or a slut or whatever. As for prego worries, if you're going to go for emergency contraception, you need to do that like now. If you can't get ahold of any, until you find out for sure take any precautions you would if you were prego. Don't drink alcohol, don't take any drugs, cut back on caffeine, cut back on cigs if you smoke, etc. Chances are, these will be unnecessary precautions, but they certainly won't hurt your health and it's better to do so unnecessarily than to live with worrying about whether you hurt your baby.
first dont let any of the people that make you feel guilty and say that you are trash or whatever. Forget them, they have their own values and you have yours so be it. Who cares about them. About the rest, well since I'm a boy... well my best advice would be to stick with Tigerlily and HippieVixen's advice, I know them both their are trustworthy. greg
for all the people just posting to call names..wow, you rebels you... but ive seen some of you peoples posts in real kinky and some of you shouldnt be talking... granted it wasnt too smart what she did, but thats her problem not yours...so calling names really makes you look like the idiot..
