Obsessive Gf

I have an obsessive gf she is very attached from a week of going out and I slept with her and I told her our relationship was going to not be about sex. She is crazy she gets worse everyday she has attempted suicide many times. I don't Know how to break up with her without getting stalked and harassed. Any Help? Whats the best way to tell her I'm breaking up with her?

 

just do it man. ive been in that spot with a couple girls. just start distancing yourself. Make yourself busy so its not a total shock. Then once she starts wondering whats up give her the ol' we have to talk. Stay strong and dont give into her if she cries or tries to manipulate you.

It sucks but youll be a lot happier in the end. Whatever happens, its not your fault. She needs to be single and find herself instead of needing a boyfriend to validate her. It is unhealthy for both of you!

if she gets her shit straightened out maybe you can try it again in the future. With a stress on the maybe haha

 

Yeah, there is no nice way of breaking up with someone, you just have to do it. Better than stringing her along and being unhappy.

 

ok, y'all are sixteen. what happened? you slept with her and then you had to decide to keep sleeping with her (which meant a relationship) or no nookie? dump her ass. she may be crazy, but it's not your fault. learn how to spot the crazies.

 

There is no nice way to do it. Being broken up with sucks, no matter how nicely it's done. There are many ways to avoid harassment if it's a real and valid concern, everything from simply blocking her out to getting a restraining order. You're only 16, appeal to her parents if you have to. And next time, wait longer than a week before having sex - girls at that age (and almost any age really) view sex as much more emotionally bonding than men do. Having sex may have made her feel more vulnerable and consequently may have upped her need to know that you aren't going to be leaving her. Just a thought.

 

The best thing to do is (imo) get her to dump you. If she is control of the break up, she won't freak on you.

Sour the milk ( s l o w l y ). Find things to do that keep you away like extra work, guy time with friends, helping out needy family, or something like that.

And/or act mad when she is looking at, or around other guys when you're not there. Question her if she is messing around with them behind your back. When she says no, act like you don't believe her (slightly). The mistrust coming from you can make her want to leave you.

Don't over do it! Make it look like a side of you she didn't know, and doesn't like.

It may take some time to do it this way, and she might talk shit about you behind your back. But at least she will leave you finally and not get all stabby on you.

My 2 cents..

 

^really bad idea

 

This has its good and bad sides. Easy on him, not having to take any flak, but unfair on his girlfriend who sounds slightly unstable as it is!

 

you're fucked kid....keep your fucking dick in your pants next time...her dad will probably pound the snot out of you too

 

It's like a band-aid, you just have to do it quick. No lingering and whatnot. If she's a little nuts and does anything stupid, that isn't your fault. We can't be responsible for other peoples actions in life (unless we tell them to do something).

 

ive had my share of nutty women, get out fast as you can

 

Not so easy for him because he will have to act the ass. Easy for her because she'll want to leave him and not want to get revenge on him somehow.

 

she'll probably love him more for acting like an ass. instead of justin's advice, act like real man and keep it real dawg.
http://www.comedycentral.com/videos/index.jhtml?title=keeping-it-real&videoId=24432

 

or she'll turn around and flip out or act like a psycho towards him

 

The ripping off the band-aid thing could be a good idea. But roadside bombs might be in his future.

 

10 bucks says if he dumps her she cries rape

 

ok, audio record the dumping, get video too if you can. oh, and post it on hipforums.

 

Explain why..

 

because if he breaks up with her= they are broken up

if he tries to get her to break up with him= who the fuck knows what will happen. crazy shit. plus, it's grimey as hell.

 

I had a suicidal gf. I loved her and thought everything was good between us. I married her and within a year she tried to cut herself again. I grabbed her hand and she twisted the knife around cutting my thumb half off.

I stand by my advice because after 12 years of marriage to a crazy person, I think I have an idea on how to end it. I was happy to give her everything to just go away.

And she didn't try to kill me, like she said she would. Well actually she said her brother would kill me, lol.