Dear all, I m going to discuss a Love story One of my best friend and we need your opinions, Actually the matter is- One of my friend loves a Sweet girl from last 6 yrs and that girl also love him very much, in short words they both are ?True lovers?, The boy extremely loves that girl he can't ever tolerate even any other GUY try to look at that girl a single time. But now see How The Life Takes EXAM At Every Moment? ? What happened last week that Sweet Girl told to my friend that in her past an another boy was in her life when she was reading in 11th class and they both had close relationship (for 1 Year) even they always used to had sex (except VIRGINITY) may times. After this statement the girl started crying very badly and said sorry to my friend for all her mistakes in past and not to disclose this incidence in front of him Earlier. Now My friend also crying from last week after heard this matter and not coming at the point to decide that Either He should break the relationship or Excuse to that Girl. (But still he loves her very much) Dear all plz reply with ur Opinions..........
Ur friend should ask her whether she still have feelings for that boy, i hope not, and if she dont so, she should be forgiven. He must ask her about the reason she broke up wid that boy, and if a reason he thinks is fine, comes out then, he should really forgive her, If not because he REALLY loves her then, for being truthful, even though late.
wait so he's upset that she had sexual relations with someone in 11th grade which was a long time ago and that somehow constitutes cheating even tho he didnt know her at the time....lol? tell the guy to be man and suck it up, you cant always have the first encounter, but that doesnt mean that the current relationship is worse/better because of the past... why do people think that their partner is somehow deviant if they had past relationships/experiences? it sounds extremely selfish to me, like were they suppose to know that that person in the past wasnt the right one at the time, and that they were suppose to wait for you...? i mean that makes no sense, so getting mad about something that makes no sense in the first place is a waste of ur time and hers.
I had a couple of girlfriend that I really was fond of that I wish a few more men had taken them sexually so I had less training and teaching to do sexually! LOL Really I love that my wife TAUGHT me new things I had never experienced. Her current man should be happy and realize there is a pre-HIM period in her life, otherwise PISS-OFF.
I do not see why it would. we all learn for experiences good or bad. Eventhough they are not with these guys it seems the experiences were good and they learned from them. God knows my wife did. You could always ask her in a PM if you want?
Your friend shouldn't be stupid! The only wrong thing this girl has done is not telling him before! I'm more experianced then my bf and he knows and I also think he likes the fact that I can teach him a lot.