Not gay, but think about Sucking?

It’s kind of weird, as I am not gay and I don't consider myself bi, but I think about sucking all the time. I love looking at women, but never have been attracted to a guy, don't enjoy looking at gay porn. But, I think I would like to have a cock in my mouth. The last thing I would like to do is kiss a guy. I am not sure why I feel this way. I suppose this is Bi-sexual, except, the not liking the rest of the man’s body parts. Do any of you guys have similar feelings? Can anyone explain it?

 

Sexuality isn't black and white. What's to explain? You're a sexual being with varying tastes that can't be categorized. Why should there be rigid categories?

 

count me in with you

 

my feelings are exactly the same

 

There are millions of guys just like you, believe me. I've been married, had lots of girlfriends and don't get turned on just by looking at guys. I don't feel romantic about guys or want to cuddle with them. But given the chance, I'll drop to my knees in a heartbeat to slide my lips over a hard, throbbing cock. I suck, I swallow and I love doing it. I've probably been with 30 or so women in my life but I'm sure I've sucked more than a hundred cocks. I'm going to go suck a guy off later today. I love the internet!

 

Most guys are obsessed with whatever that can be done to their cock. As silly as that sounds, that's the reason why strait men would like to give head, the pleasure of receiving it is that good.

It's like this odd idea of autofelatio, if a guy could do that, they would be off pleasuring themselves rather than anyone else. It's proof enough that is all in aid of personal gratification, and shows no signs of homosexuality, or bisexuality. It's probably thought of by more blokes than you realise.

 

The trouble with that type of thinking, being PC about it, saying stuff like "why should you put a label on it" blinds you to the oppossing argument.
Why are there rigid categories is the more interesting question.

When it come to love, finding a soulmate, doesnt matter how much attention you get from whomever, or how hot someone is, their is always one person you pine over more than everyone else.

When it comes to sex, doesnt matter what else you do there is always one act thats your favourite above everything else.

Guy who's favourite thing is missionary with a girl isnt more likely to go through life straight than the guy who's favourite thing is a blow job?

Girl who can only get there being pounded by a big guy isnt more likely to go through life straight than the girl who finds it a whole lot easy to get off rubbing her button?.

In one sense, the three labels, Gay, Bi, Straight arent enough. There's a couple different versions of exclusive gay, half dozen or so versions of Bi, and most importantly to the majority of the population, theres another half dozen different versions of straight

 

You're right in that the three labels will not describe all. I have yet to touch a cock myself, but have often found a man's cock interesting and in some cases beautiful. I've seen a few hard ones, most recently a few weeks ago and wished now I'd expressed appreciation or been able to act on some of those occasions.

 

I guess you can see my handle, that this is my first post, and probably be safe in determining I think about sucking cock often. ;D

To be fair, I have had 3 gay one-nighters in my ealry 20s, and I did have a steady male lover for 4 months in 1984 and it was wonderful. My fantasy is to have a long term relationship with a married couple (man and woman). If the man is truly bi and the woman was turned on by such a versatile 3some; especially knowing our (her two guys) priority was always her first.

I also am not turned on by kissing other men though, and have never desired to put my cock in someones ass. My male lover did not care to be fucked in the ass but but I really enjoyed stradling and riding him while he masturbated me. Our favorite thing mutual sucking on our side, and for me I loved to have a vibrator in me while we did. It made for massive amounts of cum when I ejaculated and he loved that. Listen guys, you DO have a spot also you know.

Several times we had mutual ejaculations and it was absolutely enormous. I swallowed every drop and wanted more.

I make no bones about it, I am surely a bisexual man, but in a married relationship with a woman I dearly love, and there's no way no how she could handle knowing this about me.

So, I will remain a "half celibate bi guy" who often fantasizes about deep throating a juicy 6" cock. So yes OP, I can relate to what you fantasize about.

 

Dude, she knows

 

I Guess Im The Opposite. I Dont Want To Suck Cock, I Want Everyone To Suck Mine

 

I don't like when guys don't want to recipocate (return the favor)... I guess because I'm not the type that just wants to get the other person off and be cool with it. I need to get mine too.

Unfortunately that happened with the last guy. He wasn't clear on what he wanted to do, so I started sucking him. The next thing you know, we're in his bedroom 69ing, except he's not 9ing as much as I wanted him to, and eventually stops altogether... I lick his scrotum a few times and the next thin you know, he cums on himself. After that he gives me the "this never happened so quickly before" excuse. We get dressed and I leave... Meanwhile, I'm horny as hell with no outlet. So I just go home and watch some male/female porn to get the job done.

 

See to me, the thought of having dick in my mouth makes me feel queezy. But I'm straight. I'd say if you want a penis in your mouth then your bi-sexual. Or I guess you could say your straight with bi-sexual tendencies lol. I say stop thinking so much. Life is to short to be wondering if you want it or not. Now go on and stick that schlong in your mouth!

 

I have been stright all my life.But at 52 what the hell I want to try a cock once. If I dont like it it will be the only one

 

LOL, That last bit ruled And no matter how idiosyncratic, definitely correct.

 

Thanks ^_^
You ever seen what happens to gay guys that don't wanna be gay? They work out as if a testosterone boost is gonna make them like girls, then they start talking about beating people up and how big their dick is. Sad sad sight.

 

I had the same desire to suck on a cock, but I have no desire to kiss,hug or do anything else other than a hj or bj. It was a curiousity,along with a desire for a good bj. Plus the fact that my wife encouraged and approved of " a little experimenting", with our friend, help me to decide to do it.
Screw the labels. I just consider myself to be a horny old bastard.
If my wife would let me have sex with other women, I would be right there. She considers that cheating, but a little bi play is experimenting and harmless fun. Besides, it turns her on.
I'm glad I tried it and I find a great satisfaction in both receiving and giving a good bj.
Just do it, be safe and have fun. It isn't the big deal that you think.

 

This would never happen with me. I would love to wrap my lips around a big black cock, and suck the cum right out of you.

 

To the original poster: That's how it started with me. (Only being interested in sucking that is) This guy at school was slagging me off about being gay (who I'm now convinced was gay and ended up doing it with one of my friends), he asked me if I wanted to suck his dick and I was totally repulsed and refused... Then I couldn't get it out of my head and it's all I wanted to do but the idea of being with a man, kissing a man, even looking at the guy's face while sucking disgusted me.
Then two years ago this guy I met was really persistent and kept hugging me and holding me in against his body as well as his crotch and even though I kept resisting and kind of ignoring what it was he was trying to start he kept trying anyway. In the end, because of a booking mix-up online we ended up sharing a double bed in a hotel instead of being a twin bed while vacationing with my family. Being in the same bed you can guess it was a bit too hard to hold out and so we fooled around. Even then kissing repulsed me and I was trying to get away from his lips.
We tried anal a few nights later which was awful and I've since never done but we often meet up for oral sex. I no longer feel repulsed by kissing or hugging or holding each other as I did before. I think once you go down the road you get more and more used to different aspects of what a male and male relationship would be like. At one point I'd watch porn and couldn't bare the kissing to the extent it would make me soft but now it's like an introduction to oral.

 

I should prob have said I was resisting because I never planned on acting out any of my fantasies. It was something I'd hoped I'd hide away...