So, like, I'm totally new to the gay lifestyle. At first, I just thought I really loved my friend. Then I started feeling very sexually turned on by him. Like, we would be chilling together, and I would dream of giving him a blow job. But, like, he was into having sex with multiple women. Plus I didn't want to ruin our friendship. Then one day, my girlfriend (friend that is a girl) said she was going to a rave and wanted me to come. Man, was that a rush. Didn't do any E, but man did I feel like I was in esctacy. I totally was diggin on this guy name Greg. We hit it off great that evening. I went back to his place just to hang out, and ending up making out with him and staying the night. No, we did not have sex. I'm still technically a guy-virgin. But he listened to me and seemed to care about how I felt, and I felt very safe and comfortable with him. We have been together now for about 3 weeks. I am thinking about losing my guy-virginity with him soon. I'm a little nervous, but I am so looking forward to it. He is such a great guy. Thanks for listening to my story, and hope to use this site as a support group and as an extended family.
Welcome to the forum. Your approach to talking and getting to know Greg is wise. Let your comfort and desire build at the same time so your first time together sexually will be safe and well thought out. Apparently he isn't pressuring you into sex so that suggests respect for you on his part. Enjoy and good luck to both of you.
It's nice to hear someone is doing it the right way! Maybe it's just me but I seem to be constantly around a staggering number of promiscuous gentlemen, who I believe generally rush into sex. The gay scene is no different to the strait dating scene, regardless of its stigma. It's guys like you who give it a good name Good luck with it all, sorry for the late reply. Ain't been on the forum for months
