Hello !! I have stumbled upon this website and have read some posts and I really think this is the place I would feel comfortable talking about my dilemma. I have been dating two men who don't know about each other. One is married but he is in the process of separating from his wife and I was not the reason. They were separating before we met and her and I have become friends. I enjoy T and the time we spend together but the sex is very ...boring . For someone who has been married for 18 yrs sure does not know nothing about pleasing a woman. And I don't want to say anything because he is really insecure about things. Now J is not married and has all the time to spend with me and the man has been the one to show me exactly what good sex is. I never experienced sex the way I experience it with J. Its awesome. The downfall he is bipolar and has mood swings like crazy. I have asked him to please go see about getting some meds but he wont. Our relationship is so up and down and we have only been together for two months..J is not really attractive like T is...I know this sounds shallow. I just have no idea who to chose because I can't keep seeing both of them.
Hi Blueyes. You might like to try posting this in one of the other sections of the forum. Most of the people who have good, useful insights to offer don't tend to come and offer them on the introductions section.
