Never orgasmed. Help?

I am well experienced but I don't get my share of satisfaction. I practically tried a lot but not a thing drives me to that point. So I've no idea what an orgasm feels like. I can't even make me have one. Is that bad?

 

Well, it certainly seems like you aren't happy with it. If it didn't trouble you I wouldn't say it was necessarily bad, but the fact that you seem somewhat distressed by your lack of orgasm, then perhaps it is something you should figure out. It may take some time, but you are right that your best bet is to try and work it out on your own first before trying it with another person.

Make sure you give yourself plenty of time. Schedule a block of time were you can concentrate on yourself with no interruptions. Be sure to do whatever you need to make yourself feel relaxed, bath, candles, or music. Then, explore your body, but instead of concentrating on "am I going to be able to cum", just think about how everything is feeling. Take your time and allow yourself to move slowly to feel everything, and concentrate on the sensations you feel. If something is feeling good, take your time there, if not, move on. It may be hard, but don't set the goal of these sessions as orgasm, but rather feeling good. If you complete a session like this and had a good time and felt good, that is success. It doesn't matter if you came or not. As you get used to these sessions were you are concentrating on just the feeling good, you will forget about the "I need to cum" and it will just happen naturally.

Some common roadblocks might include medications such as antidepressants, depression, not being comfortable with yourself, or perhaps hormone imbalance.

Good luck and hopefully you enjoy the practice :sunny:

 

I've tried. If tried a lot. I clear my mind but nothing. I just get there then its gone.

 

I will assume you are a woman . This is more of a womans kind of post. Hear is the wiki on orgasm . http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm If you do a web search there is a lot of info on how to have an orgasm , where to put your fingers , ect. . http://www.dogpile.com/

 

OK uhm one I've tried it ALL

 

Male of female?

 

Female

 

Do you feel comfortable telling us your age?

 

I'm twenty

 

And I can assume youve tried yourself with toys, porn, and all of that?

 

Everything. Every position. Size everything nd I have to fake

 

Can you get REALLY aroused? And then you get frustrated when it doesn't happen after a while an end up just giving up?

 

No. I get there I'm at that point then it stops.

 

This is one of those times I'm really glad I'm a guy.
the only thing I can add is keep practicing
good luck

 

Its ur genders fault xD

 

Oh, I don't know about that. I had many orgasms long before any female ever touched my penis

 

U think I exaggerated when I say never

 

Have you ever think what excites you, in terms of visual, experience, role-play?

 

well maybe you should try switching teams. :gorgeous:

 

Yup. I like aggressive behavior. Biting is great to me but then it stops nd I just lose that urge