So i have been dating this girl since about the beggining of may now and everything has been amazing. We were friend for a long time (years) and all the sudden this summer we both just ended up falling for each other real hard. Here is the thing; now that i am getting closer and closer to her she is starting to push me away and i dont even think she relizes she is doing it. This is a self admitted problem of hers, as soon as anyone (friend, family member, lover etc.) gets to close to her she starts to push them away. Well it has started with me and it really sucks, i can tell that she sees herself doing it a little bit now, but in reality her whole attitude has changed toward me. I really like this girl but i dont know how much longer i can take being pushed away until i finally give up. anyone out there have any advice/ been in a similar situatin Thank you so much for taking your time to read my thread Much Love -Dis
If you've addressed it with her and she's unwilling to work on it, you have two choices: Accept her as she is. Or move on. She's never going to change if you keep making allowances. I'd move on.
