Ok I'm an 18 year old senior (don't mind the age, I just selected some dates when i registered) and I would consider myself pretty sexually mature. My first time was my freshman year with my long time girlfriend. Since then I've had sex with 11 different girls, and have had it more times than I can remember. But I've only had 3 long term girlfriends in high school. My girl recently broke up with me after 8 months . And it was a pretty rough breakup that involved a LOT of yelling and me realizing that she's a **** with a capital C. But I digress. I was at a party last night some of my friends (we have one whenever we know we'll have a snow day the next day), trying to just get her out of my head and meet up with this other girl I was talking to (she didn't show). Around midnight, I was fairly drunk and stoned and was just chillin upstairs with one of my best friends, talking about our recent breakups (he broke up with his girl last week and was dating her for close to two years!). But things got weird kinda fast... We both play football and track and have had one of those weird locker room male flirting type of things going on for as long as I can remember. And I never considered it weird because lots of the guys in my school are like that. But one thing led to another, and I realize I'm making out with the dude! And I even liked it! Nothing else happened and I doubt anything else will, but I just can't even comprehend that when I think about it now! But I guess I've had a small "man-crush" on him for awhile and I think he felt the same about me. But I still have no desire to sleep with him. And tonight i hooked up with my ex again (and yeah, she's still a ****, but she's still bangin:2thumbsup and it made me realize I could never have sex with any guy. Pussy's just too damn good . And I'm hanging out with him and some other guys tonight and I know it's gonna be weird and I gotta talk to him about it. I need some advice about what to say and do about this. I'm just so damn confused about the last 24 hours right now.
i guess treat him as if he's a ffemale friend that you hooked up with. do you want it to go anywhere? you say no, so just continue to be friends.
no worries - it happens and if you both fancy each other then what's the problem? Celebrate the fact that you are able to be attracted by your own sex as well, and able to enjoy m2m sex. I am bi and like you much prefer to fuck a nice wet pussy than a bum, but am definitely turned on by guys and their genitals - and fucking and being fucked by a guy can be great as well. Relax, accept, celebrate and enjoy that you are lucky enough to have the option to be attracted by both sexes. Simon
Dude: You do what you feel is right for you. It is however, always very smart to keep ALL of your options open. At times, having a cool buddy on the side may be a great way to enjoy your life and remain independent of anyone's whims. Talk about it? I'd be careful about that one. You were like stoned. This happened only once and really was just "making out"? Cool. You know that. He knows that. There is really very little to talk about at this stage. Should more of the "one thing led to another" kinda events take place, consider talking about it in strict privacy and confidence. No need to freak him out and ruin a possibly very good thing going on... KD
