Need Life Advice! Important!

Discussion in 'Mental Health' started by aesthetic, Apr 15, 2012.

  1. aesthetic

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    Ok, there is this girl. I have been going out with her for 1 week starting today. I really like her but I am not sure if she is the one. We are both 16, so yeah I know I shouldn't really be looking for a lifepartner. But we are both in a situation were we push eachother into loving one another. She has cervical cancer and is getting a tumor removed within the next month, she may not survive the operation. I myself am currently looking at 1 year in the pen for resisting arrest and burglary. Now, we are moving really fast but I dont know how to slow things down, I have already met her mother and she has met my parents. We have had intercourse more than 3 times. She is already talking about our future (not like marry future but like "Next Year Future") Anyways, the most recent time we had sex I was not wearing a condom, I pulled out but it was dark so I am not sure if I came one her vagina our on the ground. I felt her vag and it wasn't sticky, just wet still. I am not sure if one can become pregnant from jizzing on the pussy.


    I need advice!


    My parents gave birth to me at the age of 16, this worries me. It has fucked with the living environment and social life of my parents.
     
  2. tuesdaystar

    tuesdaystar Interneter

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    yes well

    odds are in your favor

    but you never know till you know

    pray for lovely periods
     
  3. DMFP

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    Unfortunately looks like you will just have to wait and see. Not using a condom and using the 'pull out' method is not a good idea. Hope things work out for you both.
     
  4. walsh

    walsh Senior Member

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    You'd better start saving up for a wedding ring real quick. I'd say you've got around 9 months.
     
  5. aesthetic

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    Very helpful guys. Keep it up.....
     
  6. jaredfelix

    jaredfelix Namaste ॐ

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    nah youll be straight man. i had creampie'd my first gf after not realizing the condom broke, and she never got pregnant. and yes she has kids NOW lol no not mine....
     
  7. SpacemanSpiff

    SpacemanSpiff Visitor

    wait a minute...you been going out with her a week and already screwed her a few times?...god my life sucks
     
  8. aesthetic

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    Thanks, you seem like the only one who took this post seriously.
     
  9. RooRshack

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xsp8DmgtjHY"]The Offspring - Way Down The Line - YouTube
     
  10. RooRshack

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xsp8DmgtjHY"]The Offspring - Way Down The Line - YouTube
     
  11. jaredfelix

    jaredfelix Namaste ॐ

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    neat. oh btw roor, do you have two profiles? lol
     
  12. OceanStar

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    Buy a pregnacy test if you are worried. There is no point adding more stress wondering whats going to happen. My advice would be if you two are in such a stressful situation then you NEED to slow things down. Stop having sex. If you aren't going to use protection everytime and you don't want kids then just stop. You both have a lot going on personally so try to support each other but also look after yourself. You're 16. Too young to be getting into a situation like this. Stop messing around and getting into trouble, get an education and enjoy just being young.

    That would be my advice anyway.
     
  13. RooRshack

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    ......Nope.... Should I?
     
  14. jaredfelix

    jaredfelix Namaste ॐ

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    so your avatar isnt of you? or is it? i believe someone else is using the same one lol
     
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  16. eggsprog

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    you'll probably be fine man, even if you came inside of her all 3 times chances are that she isn't going to get pregnant. that said, you should use a condom (or she should get on the pill, or use both) every time because eventually you're going to get her pregnant.
     
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