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Discussion in 'Sex Polls' started by Juneeeeee, Feb 26, 2024.

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Is talk dxxty is a must during sex?

  1. Helps with vibe, better experience

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  2. It should be on its own terms, not necessarily trying something new

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  1. Juneeeeee

    Juneeeeee Members

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    Need help, how do you talk dxxty during sex?
    So far it's been kind of an amusing debacle. I'm a little innocent in this area and have no idea what to say. What are some other things I can say? I have no context on this. modified
     
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  2. wilsjane

    wilsjane Nutty Professor HipForums Supporter

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    How about starting a discussion about the dolls. :D
     
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  3. oldguynurse

    oldguynurse Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    The easiest way to start would be to simply describe how your partner feels to you, using slightly different words than you usually would. Instead of “you feel so good” try, “the inside of your pussy feels so good.” Or, for a female version, “your dick feels so good inside me.”

    one can expand on these as situations develop.
     
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  4. Jamie28London

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    Its always worth checking boundaries first, but a bit of name calling is a good one. Telling her she is a dirty little slut. Telling her she is only here to please you. You can tell her to beg for your cum, tell her to admit she is a nasty whore. Just let yourself go. However talk to her beforehand and go through what is acceptable and what isnt. The last thing you want to do, is annoy, upset or offend her while you are in the middle of sex.
     
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  5. 6Sailor9

    6Sailor9 Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    “However talk to her beforehand and go through what is acceptable and what isnt.”…most definitely!!
     
  6. straightma1e

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    I don't talk dxxty nor dirty to my sex partner. Nope, I talk vulgar. It makes things so much better when fucking. Not during romantic sexual liaisons. Just when we're purely doing raunchy fucking. She may not start or refrain from being vulgar but in time, with my prodding, we usually end up that way. One of my most favorite phrases is when she asks me "Would you fuck me?"
     
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  7. Andy Schumer

    Andy Schumer Visitor

    Best I can offer, keep talking about things together and learn what works, know your partner and use that knowledge
    For example: If you know he really loves getting blowjob and you are into it, or enjoy doing them before sex, describe what you will do to him. Describe what it will result in.

    or another example, before sex tell him how you want him to do it to you, what you will feel with his penis. or during intercourse tell and describe how you feel him inside of you, how you want him to cum.

    It becomes easier and natural
     
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  8. Jenna1995

    Jenna1995 Promiscuous and Daring!

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    Interesting subject! For me, I’m usually engaged in rough Sex with several guys (at least) and I was always told not to talk when you mouth (and throat) is full, LOL :p! But sometimes the guys can be shy at first if they’ve never done a group thing so I try and shake it up a little by saying things like: Hope you guys are here to fuck my brains out, Don’t hold back big boys, who’s going to make me beg for mercy, no rules boys! And probably a few more things to I initiate a rough session.
     
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  9. suolsu

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    It's not mandatory, but some people like it.
     
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  10. Andy Schumer

    Andy Schumer Visitor

    Very true, it’s not my thing.
    But maybe a little will do.
     
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  11. Redwingsfan

    Redwingsfan I’m just having a fun crazy time

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    You just have to go with the flow and see where it leads.
     

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