Hello everyone I am new to your site and I am in desperate need of help for my mental being...........my wife and I never ever use condoms and she had gone to china a couple months back. I was out of town the day before yesterday and when i came home i went to the bathroom and as I was on the toilet I noticed a shiny little piece of something that TO ME looks like the end of a condom wrapper.......problem is its in chinese SO I THINK and have googled every asian condom on the market.......if anyone can read what it is or have seeeeen this wrapper before please please help me identify it I found that the last symbol means wrapper but can't make out the rest..........
can you find me the exact pic of that condom so i can show it to her rather than her say I'm crazy ........please this is my life please help me
If you want my honest opinion, I don't think it's a condom wrapper. Condom wrappers are generally glossier, and the top and bottom edges of them have a serraded design from the way they were perforated so that you could pull them apart. How long has it been since the bathroom trashcan was changed? Where is the bathroom in geographical location to your bedroom? Did you feel the inner lining of the wrapper, is it smooth and perhaps moist? Because, to me honestly, it looks like the edge of a tea bag wrapper or a candy wrapper.. she may have bought a packet of tea and decided to finally drink it, opened the wrapper to pull the bag out and dipped the tea bag in while walking to your bedroom to relax, and stopped in the bathroom on the way to throw the wrapper away. Cuz honestly, it doesn't even look like a rip big enough to pull a condom out of, usually you have to rip the whole side off of it. But, the best way you can know for sure, is to just present her with it. Just be like, hey honey, what's this from? It caught my eye in the bathroom trash can and I don't remember buying anything that looks like this and I didn't know you spoke chinese, so I was just wondering what it is? Since you're in a committed relationship with her, I assume that you know her mannerisms by now and should be able to point if she is lying. If you catch her lying, point it out to her but don't get rough or tense with her because then shes just gonna have a mental shut down. Confront her easily!
I agree with the previous posters who have told you just to ask her and think the person just before me was very helpful to you. However I am curious. If you never use contraception, what made you even think it was a condom wrapper? Why are you so familiar with them now that this was your first thought? Heard the term 'thou doth protest too much'? You are pretty scared she cheated on you. Why would that be so prominent in your mind? What sort of business are you getting up to when you are away from your wife? Could your lack of trust be to do with your own extramarital behaviours and guilt? I am more curious about you having been a cheat than her. Karma, x