So my girlfriend and I have been having this problem where she can not have an orgasm. At first I tried to finger her and that didn’t work, and then we tried to have sex, and that also didn’t work. She says that she gets close and then loses it. She also said that she has given her self one before but has never from another person. What could I/ she do to give her an orgasm?
Use. That. Tongue.:H Seriously. And if that don't work, then have her masturbate in front of you to see EXACTLY what gets her going. And then replicate that by all means, fingers, tongue and/or vibrator included, whatever it takes. I can tell you right now that penetrative sex probably just isn't going to do it. Sorry.
psh, 2 words: Oral Sex oral sex is the shiznit. seriously, the only way my guy can reliably get me off
1 word...Vibrator! You can add anything else ya want to...but that one lil thing will do it every time. Also, she needs to relax & stop 'trying' it wont happen if she is only trying for that & not enjoying the ride! It's not the destination that matters, it's the trip there that makes the difference!!
With some women it just takes a little more time. She might not know what really make her tic, with you yet. She will figure it out, ask her what things she likes. Its a state of mind for her, don't sweat it. It will happen.
i can honestly say ive never had issues in this area.. i got my current girlfriend to orgasm just from breathing on her.. and when i finally did finger her / eat her out she had 2 more.. its all about making sure she is comfortable.. really warm her up.. kiss her whole body.. tease her until she wants it more then anything
