hey, right ok, my best friend marie introduced me to her boyfriend karl just over a year ago, they went out for about 18 months, during that time, karl intruduced me to the guy who became my first love, joe, there was one point where all four of us met up and it was really cool. me and joe went out for four months. but things started to go wrong so me and joe, and marie and karl split up in april, marie and karl are still friends. me and joe are not friends but we are back in contact after a long time of not talking. a month ago, marie and joe started going out, and thats cool, but my problem is about karl, i have always had feelings for him, but resently they have been getting stronger, enough to the point that i am thinking about doing something about it, ive talked to marie about all this, whether or not i should do something about it, she is rle pleased about the idea, no problem with it at all, but im not sure whether i should do something because he is a really good friend of mine and he always has been, we get on really well togather. marie is saying that i should do something about it, but i dont want to ruin are friendship, like what happend with joe, but that was a very differant situation, but still i am worried about our friendship and also that he does not feel the same way about me. marie did says that she thinks we would be really good togather and that we are really alike and she said that she noticed that we used to flirt and stuff, but since i have realized my feelings for him, i havent been as bold, ive become shyer then i normaly am. our friendship means alot to me, but i also want more. basicly im asking if any of you have been in the same situation and what did you do and what happend? thanks alot xxx
your at that point that no matter what you do there is going to be them odd feelings. If you tell him and he says no but wants to remain friends you will feel odd, you dont tell hime and remain freinds you will feel odd and lastly you run away and say nothing and you will feel odd. So let hime know how you feel, leave him a comfortable out like. ( I really like you and was wondering if you wanted to go out, I know we are really good friends and no matter what I never want to loose that) See comfortable out. Its either gonna fly or not, sadly thats just the way it is.
