my wife sucks at giving head

seriously. i dont wanna hurt her feelings by telling her that, so whats a good way to get her to learn without upsetting her feelings?

 

Be glad that she sucks.

 

Just tell her what you want.

 

just let her kow that she can instruct YOU when u go down and her . . . if she does . . .you can probably safely make a suggestion.

 

I would talk to her about it, but be very gentle. Example- when you go down on me, it would be really hot if you did ****- (whatever it is). Or maybe, if she is comfortable, watch a porno/instructional video, saying "I just want to rock your world and improve our sex life"- but no, I wouldn't come out and say, you suck at giving oral.

 

This is a very touchy subject with women. Most chicks who say they don't like giving head are just afraid they aren't doing it right. How you word it to her would all be depending on how sensitive she is. Personally, I would want the guy to tell me if he wanted it done a certain way. Just use your best bedroom voice and a slight touch of the hand..

 

sugarmaggie...can we just get married today? i will work on my bedroom voice, i love how you called it that, everyone does have one, whats yours like?

 

eh, no easy way to approach it. Sometimes I think something like this needs casual communication first rather than bringing it up in the bedroom. I think that in the mix, in the bedroom might leave her feeling too vulnerable. But it all depends what her personality type is.

I agree with marbchic's advice too. If you have that point of reference with her you can kind of slip in that question, "do you want to know exactly how i'd love one on me".

 

rather then tell her what she is doing wrong and hurt her feeling and possible lose your nuts in the process try a different way. While she is giving you head tell her what you like and make a game of it, like dirty talk and stuff. Use your hands to guide her head gently when she is doing what you like make sure to moan and tell her how much you like that and the way she is doing it then. When she is done tell her that was the best she ever did and make sure to complement her.

 

my guess is well shes doin it just tell her what shes doin good, whats shes doin wrong and what you want her to do.

 

hold her hand through the whole experience, tell her what to do every step of the way and let her know what you like

i had to do this with my ex boyfriend, he sucked at eating me out and giving him advice and telling him exactly what to do really worked

 

I agree with sniff to a certain degree, instead of holding her hand through the whole experience, I would hold the back of her had and show her why her throat is not just for swallow bon-bons anymore.

 

"My wife sucks at giving head".. Well, no shit Sherlock!

haha

 

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youre lucky she makes an effort- but maybe through time she will be better?

 

tell her to put pop rocks in her mouth and suck on it.... i know for a fact that guys really like that.. theres no way for her to be bad at it if shes got them in her mouth. and shell get better at it along the way because you have to get all the candys that stick on. off with your tounge... and its fun for her aswell

 

Leave it up to a teenager to have the best advice on here.

You're lucky she makes an effort? As in girls shouldn't be giving head at all so if you get it then you're a lucky man?

Poor kid.

 

Dude, that's why you married her!

 

NM!

 

Just talk with her about it, but like they said above, be gentle about it. Most ladies are very sensitive about their performance abilities. She wants to please you the best she can, just work on it together.