my problem

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by yohonis, Feb 2, 2005.

  1. yohonis

    yohonis Member

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    I got a little problem nothing to bad thought. I get turned on so easily. just by cudling with a girl. Then its imbarrising when i stand up and am all hard n shit. I know it pretty funny but it sucks. Sex might not even occure to me but i still get up like its nothing at all. any one have advice?
     
  2. Super_Grrl

    Super_Grrl Crazy love

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    Well not having a penis I can't help you much at all... maybe if you masturbate before cuddling with a girl your penis will be tired and want to nap instead of be awake??
     
  3. monosphere

    monosphere Holly's Hubby

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    hey, at least you don't have the opposite problem.
     
  4. sugarmaggie

    sugarmaggie ~Green Eyed Devil~

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    Good point..:)
     
  5. PureInnocence

    PureInnocence Member

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    I think you're just a man. My bf used to get a hard on just by looking at me. I remember this time I met him at the skytrain, and it was SOOO funny. Because he turns the corner, see's me, blushes furiously. And runs to hug me so that no one notices his sudden hard on.

    and what Super Grrl sys makes a lot of sence to me! Make him sleepy. It feels great to make him sleepy too. Would work for me!
     
  6. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    There's no problem, as long as you just get hard and nothing else
     
  7. ahimsa

    ahimsa Senior Member

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    Its pretty standard for teenaged boys. Your hormones are just on overdrive. Eventually, you'll learn to control it more.

    Also, if you're cuddling with the girl, she probably doesn't mind. I know all the girls I cuddle with think its kinda flattering in a funny way if it happens.

    Peace
     
  8. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    girls find it flattering if you're hard all the time-no worries. Oh and if you're in public...magazines are a godsend.
     
  9. PureInnocence

    PureInnocence Member

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    lol, I still think he should try the sleepy thing. i mean, there's no harm in trying! ;)

    Personally though, I only find it flattering when it's someone I know, or at the very least have an instant connection and level of comfort with.
     
  10. yohonis

    yohonis Member

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    who ever said better this problem the the opposite is damn right i guess. i try to look for the positive in everything and i guess i didn't this time but now i see. haha
     
  11. Binky

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    When I first started dating my b/f he was always hard, even just when were cuddling, I loved it. But now we have been dating for a year and it’s only hard when we have the intention to leading onto sex - which is still good, but I kindda miss the old days - it is very flattering.
     
  12. rg420

    rg420 Member

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    haha I'm the same way. I have been with the same girl now for almost 3 years and still get a semi when she changes clothes... I don't think it's a problem... If you are single yeah it might causse some problems, but the girl should be happy about it
     
  13. rg420

    rg420 Member

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    Have fun with it... walk around with a towel hanging from it... hmmm not that I would know anything about that
     
  14. CubanB

    CubanB Member

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    I have the same problem too............but it's all good just as long as she's the only one who notices it :p
     
  15. peacefuljeffrey

    peacefuljeffrey Senior Member

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    Well, when you pause to consider that there are loads of guys who have trouble getting hard even when they want to, you realize that being able to get hard easily is quite a blessing!

    I'm the same way. I will never allow myself to feel embarrassed by my ability to get an erection, and keep it, easily! It's an asset, man! Enjoy it! :D

    -Jeffrey
     
  16. redresonant

    redresonant Member

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    dont think too hard and you will never have a problem getting hard...unless its your fate......
     
  17. HippieFlowerGirl67

    HippieFlowerGirl67 Banned

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    My friend gets a hard on from me which I kinda think is weird, but oh well....
     
  18. gratefullydead1

    gratefullydead1 Member

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    the last thing you want to do is "spank hank" everytime he decides to stand up. Try and get the person your with to....Or just ride it through. Abuse could cause other problems.
     
  19. mynameiskc

    mynameiskc way to go noogs!

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    it's not a problem. your gal probably thinks it's sweet. i know i did.

    my man would get a woody just reading a soppy love letter or when i told him i loved him.
     
  20. peacelovebarefeet

    peacelovebarefeet BuRniN oNe...

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    i think its cute when it happens.... dont worry about it!
     

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