Any reasons? EDIT: I think black is just as beautiful as any real colour. When done elegantly, a gothic appearance can look very sexy on both boys and girls. Goths are just as kind as anyone else. I myself have one gothic shirt, it's really cool, I should post a picture of myself in it some time. But I'm not gothic, I listen to bands that part of the goths like too, but I think the similarity in the way of expressing ourselves is limited to that. I wear shirts of heavy metal bands but I like different colours too much to go all black all the time.
i think what sucks about gothic (if she truly is stereotypical) is the depression. if that's the case, i understand. otherwise... what's wrong with it? i'm not fond of death metal, but that's just my taste, as is that i wear a lot of colours as opposed to black
whats up with all the labeling...I'm a hippy and she's a goth..... Do you guys look through separate catalouges for clothes...the new age one, and the depressed goth one?
not every gothic person is depressed. only the stupid ones who think its cool and are like YAY IM GOING TO GO SLIT MY WRIST CAUSE THE WORLD IS SO PAINFUL! like on south park -go live in a 3rd world country you pussy -no im not going there theyre all conformists
My best friend is sort of a goth, she is more punk-rock I guess. We are like sisters, we are amazingly close, I love her more than anyone else in the world. Our personalities and what we are steriotyped as (a dirty, drugged-up hippy and a suicidal, head banging goth/punk) hasn't gotten in the way of what we have. What exactly sucks about her being a goth?
I'm saying that its totally stupid to label yourself a "hippy" or a "goth" its just a cliched rehashing of the past. Its just fashion, and stereotyping yourself....how about using some individuality wha the hell are you talking about?
no sorry i didnt understand what you said before really until you said that. good point. fuck labels. be yourself.
Wow... I always thought hippies would be accepting of everyone. So, NewAgeHippy, I take it you've been a "hippie" for a month or so? Wouldn't you have noticed that she was "different" when you first started dating? oo lemme guess... you were once "Gothic", but then realized that you're not depressed like goths are "supposed" to be, so you started listening to Hendrix and Janis and The Doors and started wearing tiedye?
My girlfriend is a Gothic... So are you a Goth; so wake up! Gothic Culture is simply the White Euro-centric expression of the Death-Drive Funeral March of Civilization. Your girlfriend is simply expressing consciously the hidden truth of the irrational momentum of our collective subconscious. In other words, she's taking the mask off. That's what upsets us! She's exposing us. And that's especially dangerous within the subconscious death-drive of America's Gothic Puritan Culture.
What is wrong with my girlfriend.. She thinks everything is her fault... She is depressed most of the time.. And I feel guilty about it.. It doesn'nt make any sence by saying that all goth's are depressed.. But most of them are.. They think that missoury belongs to Gothic lifestyle.. I'm going to brake up with her but I think that she will do something to herself.. That is wat sucks about goth's...
Could she possibly be depressed because you suck as a person? I would feel pretty bad too if my girlfriend was saying shit like this about me. Don't say "they", have you conversed with every single person who's into the lifestyle? Why don't you stop worrying about her and think for yourself? Everybody feels depressed at some point. Get off your high horse, bitch.