wanted me to make this thread, he comes over a hell of a lot because he has problems finding places a lot. So he just comes over and passes out in my bed. This kid does smoke me out a lot and brings me drugs, but if doesn't bring drugs then I just get really annoyed because hes just invading my space otherwise. SO yeah what do you guys think about this?
I've had friends like this before. The good thing to do is to help them out if they're having problems at home. Unfortunately people of the nature can often take advantage of those who help them. You're friend should be offering something of service in return for your hospitality. That's just the good thing to do, in my opinion.
Yeah, thank lunar, I told my friend what you said and he liked it, because its pretty much how I confronted him about it yesterday. He was like yeah thats like spot on what you said rofer! (my nickname lol)
if it were me, and my friend was lacking money (or was trying specifically to save up money) i would work out a schedule for your everyday chores. dishes, garbage duty, basic upkeep (vacuum/ sweep). all simple jobs that take a small amount of effort, but help out immensely in the long run. if i had someone to do just those 3 things for me regularly, my house would probably be clean.
^I agree with what MothersLove says.. make him help out around the house, also smoking you out every once in awhile won't hurt either. it's always good to help out a friend in need!
I got kicked out of a house by people my age because I smoked weed. Well I had no place to go so I slept on a couch for a month tell I found work and a place to live. The house was so fucking dirty I could not stand it. I cleaned it to a shine because it was fucking gross, the dishes had not been done in three months I was told, that it was that bad + more everywhere. Because of that I didn't pay rent, got smoked out daily and ate good food. I was the cleaner for a month.
i 've been that guy on the couch before when i didn't have anywhere to move. doesn't feel great but i made up with it in chores, smoke ups, booze or anything. the best thing is just to do those things WITHOUT being asked. it cheapens the whole thing if you have to tell him how to act. your doing a kind thing whether he knows it or not :cheers2:
