Moving and making a new start

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by sixties_freak, Sep 25, 2011.

  1. sixties_freak

    sixties_freak Member

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    I feel like I really want to do this.
    Move from Toronto to Vancouver.
    Just basically become openly gay.
    We all have reservations about
    this but maybe I shoudn't.
    My family are all pretty distant.
    If I moved to Vancouver it
    would be a new start.
    I know I might have to live in a
    rough area for awhile, but it's
    an idea that's been appealing to
    me more and more.
    I just felt like posting this.
    Thanks
     
  2. KewlDewd66

    KewlDewd66 Member

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    I love Vancouver.

    When it comes to moving to Vancouver ask yourself, what is it that you are going to have in Vancouver that you are NOT having in Toronto?

    What´s stopping you from becoming openly gay in Toronto?

    How would becoming openly gay improve on your life?

    Once you answered those few basic questions to your own satisfaction, you´ll have the energy to rough it out there, if needed.

    KD
     
  3. sixties_freak

    sixties_freak Member

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    Being openly gay would open
    up my sexual exploration.
    I just know too many people
    in Toronto. In Vancouver I know
    few people. There would be less
    baggage and it would be easier
    to just start living just as I want
    to much more easily.
    I could let my freak side come
    out a lot more. I could experiment.
    Also, the weather is so much
    better there.
     
  4. Invisible Soul

    Invisible Soul Burning Angel

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    Well, you shouldn't have to move just because you think it would be easier for you to be openly gay there. Though in some situations, I can understand why moving to a place where nobody knows you would be desireable as regrettable as it is. :(

    I hope you come to the right decision for you, and are able to feel more comfortable with just being yourself. :) And is the weather really that much better in Vancouver than Toronto? lol
     
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