men should date fat chicks

because "weightism" is bad and even big girls are "beautiful"

but feel free to continue dating the same financially stable, dominant alpha male types that you always go for ladies

 

hahahaha. i thought you were going to say something along the lines of "because big girls are really appreciative and less likely to cheat on you."

 

nope.

i still cheated on my husband when i was fat.

 

when I was younger my mom always told me no one would would want me coz i am a big girl. bullshit. Ive never had a problem. it also depends alot on attitute too though. Ive come across many an insecure big girl, and theyre usually alone.

 

i agree. men should date more fat chicks. but it's not like all big girls are lonely and insecure! they can get men too.

 

i'm a big girl. i'm okay.

 

men should date who they find attractive, simple as that. er, and who find them attractive/want to date them in return. otherwise its stalking, and thats just creepy

in other news, ive been overweight my whole life and never had a problem finding a guy. hell, im at my heaviest now, and with the man i want to spend my life with - who loves me no matter what i weigh, and grumps at me when i put myself down for my weight. hes a sweetie! so in lvoe with him... though i wouldnt mind swapping weights with him (he weighs a lot less than me)

 

yes, men should be attracted to fat chicks. but women, don't worry, you should *never* have to change who you are attracted to, or do anything fair.

"in other news, ive been overweight my whole life and never had a problem finding a guy."

i remember in late '06 on your other name you pmed me crying about how men would never buy you drinks in bars and how you couldn't find a boyfriend

what gives?

 

why should men be attracted to fat chicks?

 

because it's "equality".

 

whatever.

people shouldn't go out of their way to insult people, but that's just a tired, lame argument meant to "show the plight of the poor, beleagured male who can't get a date." hey, if you're not hot, cool enough, or rich enough to get a beauty, that's your problem. maybe you should bring your standards down.

 

you're the one who said it. you brought it up. no one here said men should have to change for women (what a ridiculous idea, that someone should change themselves for another person)
you're just assuming that all women feel the same.
i think people should just date who they feel comfortable with, big or not.

 

no i'm talking about the "plight of the poor, fat chick who can't get a date."

 

lol. if she can't get a date she needs to go on a diet and quit whining. but in your OP you evinced an anger at how women only go for the strong alpha types. sounds like sour grapes to me.

 

pfff, crying? doubtful. no, guys dont buy me drinks at the bar, but im not out there to play the flirt-for-free-drinks game anyway. and like i said, im with the dude i want to spend my life with now, life is damn good on the relationship front

 

no, women have the right to be attracted to whoever they want.

and allonym congratulations on finding (one) man who will date a fat chick. kudos!

viva la revoluciona

 

Should you better not date someone you love in the first place...?

My second ex looked like a walking christmas tree but I really loved her then and that was the only thing that concerned me then.

 

I have watched my weight go up and down and right now I'm at my heavest. My husband loves my size and didnt like it when I was tiny lol he thought my face looked malnurished. I was bitching about gaining 6pounds and he graciously told me it was 3pounds in it tit and he loved it! hehehe I still get alittle insecure but fuck it I'm beautiful no matter what.

 

yes, good.

from now on, only date fat chicks.

this way women everywhere can relax and eat a mcdonald's burger and not have to ever jog or anything.

 

good thinking. i haven't had ice cream in AGES.