Masturbation while in a relationship.

Discussion in 'Masturbation' started by Weeble, Jan 11, 2006.

  1. Weeble

    Weeble Member

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    I was just curious, how many people still masturbate while they are in a relationship where they get regular sex (meaning *AT LEAST* once or twice a week)? Do your partners still masturbate? Do you mind if they watch porn while they masturbate, if that sort of thing turned them on?

    A guy recently asked me if it would bother me if I walked into the room and saw my partner masturbating to porn. I told him no, and that I'd probably ask my partner if they wanted help. In the case that I ever turned down sex, I would definetly not be offended if I caught him in the act. I'm a horny girl, and if my partner was sick or wasn't around or simply didn't want sex, hell yeah I'd masturbate.
     
  2. liz

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    Actual conversation which occurred in such a relationship:

    Me: All the boys love PALMela HANDerson.
    Him: Haha yeah. Hey...would you be mad if I told you I still had a relationship with her?
    Me: Nah man, it's only fair. I'm still seeing Buzzy McPhallic.
    Him: Haha okay then, it's settled.
     
  3. greengoddess

    greengoddess Nature Freak!

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    yeah both of us still do and watch porn while doing it.. I don't think all the sex in the world could keep either of us from doing it.. lol
     
  4. dmgreen

    dmgreen ~Hugz 4 All~

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    Very true with me too! :) I love my vibrator too much to give it up! :p
     
  5. Wooow

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    Yeah! I love having sex with my wife! But I enjoy masturbation very much:p
     
  6. Beyond-the-Clouds

    Beyond-the-Clouds Senior Member

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    There needs to be more chicks like you all.
     
  7. diamondsontheinside

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    there are a lot of us. most girls are just too chicken to admit it.

    yeah... i've always masterbated while i was in a relationship. only just never without porn or the help of anything else. then i just feel bad.

    and i wouldn't expect him to not do it, either. i mean, i'm pretty sure most guys wouldn't want to anyway, even if i said i'd be mad. of course, if he ever asked me not to, i'd probably oblige.
     
  8. generic

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    haha this reminds me of something, one fo my mates exs insisted he stop masturbating while he was going out with her. Not that he would follow an order that ludicrous, but he said yes anyway just to not hurt her feelings, although why that would is a mystery to me, and just made sure she never found out (god i bet that was hard:D )
     
  9. Nolan14

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    We don have regular sex, shich is for a reason, a non-sexual reason. but i still waiting anyway. So we "both"Masturbate but its not the same as giving pleasure to somebody else, like oral i love giving oral but i cant cuz of that reason...
     
  10. bobbystone420

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    My ex would lock her legs up at random during sex and smile at me seeming to enjoy the pain she was inflicting on me. I usually headed straight to the bathroom then came back to bed and went to sleep. So yes, I masturbated during my last relationship, probably once a day.
     
  11. Bella_Donna

    Bella_Donna *Femme Fatale*

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    I get sex twice a day, sometimes more with my current plaything. Before he leaves for work and before bed. That being the case, I still masterbate twice a day (sometimes more) anyway. Sometimes, I touch myself while he watches... Masterbation will save your soul, people!:p
     
  12. Weeble

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    That's funny.. My brother used to walk around in his teens preaching that "Masturbation is the key!" to like just about everyone in our age group.
     
  13. Bella_Donna

    Bella_Donna *Femme Fatale*

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    I will never stop singing the praises of masterbation. It's healthy and safe, pleasurable and a fantastic stress reliever. Being a university student, sometimes, I barely have time to eat dinner, let alone find time to relax. Masterbation is one of those activities I do purely for myself. It's my little gift to me and makes me a happier, healthier person.
     
  14. Weeble

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    If you can't touch yourself how can you let another person touch you? Just seems hypocritical.
     
  15. Bella_Donna

    Bella_Donna *Femme Fatale*

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    Agreed, and I think everyone should be responsible for knowing what turns them on. How can you help another person pleasure you if you don't even know how to do it?
     
  16. toeringguy

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    sometimes masturbation is the most fun you have all day. by the way weeble, i saw your foot pic, very sexy feet & toes.
     
  17. Weeble

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    I've gotten the sexy feet comment a lot recently. It must because I made albums for my pictures and it's 1 of 2 pictures that aren't in an album. But thank you. I love being barefoot and toe nail polish makes guys notice my cute feet more. I always know that I made an impression on a guy when he can tell me later on without looking what color polish I'm wearing.
     
  18. ~AmyLeeLoo~

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    Masturbating is totally normal! i dont really care that my BF does it.
    I do it and he finds it really hot cause that's a natural thing, sometimes while we're in the middle of our foreplay we just masturbate each other or do it by ourselves and just watch.
    Very hot!
     
  19. Imaginary Grace

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    the more sex i have to more i seem to masturbate
     
  20. pabloman

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    I was told it would make me go blind:H

    I now need reading glasses:)
     

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