man turn down woman for sex

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  1. Peter Popper

    Peter Popper Tripper

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    as a woman have u ever been turned down for sex by a guy?

    i turned down this girl for sex cause i was fuckin tired had been driving for hours that night it was late i was sober and she was smashed. and she could not beleive i turned her down.

    ill see her again and fuck her another day but seriously if im gonna fuck her i want to get into it and lick her out and fuck her and it takes a while for me. so yeah, its just funny how woman expect never to be turned down.

    lol
     
  2. jamaican_youth

    jamaican_youth Senior Member

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    Well it is true most guys find most women attractive, but most women don't find most men attractive, so most women aren't use to being turned down. I've turned down girls on many occasions, but it's the ones who say they don't want to have sex, that I will specifically say no to, even if I do want to have sex with them.

    I just hate the idea of them setting down rules before anything has even happened, you don't have sex on the first night... why? Trying too hard to act like they're special or something, one girl said this to me, so I said "fine, you now what, we'll just leave it there then", she wouldn't stop bugging me after, by the end of the night, she was basically offering to have sex with me "I wasn't serious! I'll totally have sex with you tonight", I hate that.
     
  3. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    I've had my fiancé turn me down when he was dead tired, no big deal. I've never had anyone else do it though.
     
  4. Rangle

    Rangle Member

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    I've turned down quite a few women, Be they gross, slutty, unattractive or stupid. If I'm having sex with you, its because i think you're really someone great.

    not because you have a vagina.
     
  5. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    Yeah, chicks like that are the scum of the earth, and not deserving of my dick, as far as I'm concerned. I've turn down women when they act all stupid and uppity, or simply when I'm not attracted to them.
     
  6. hotwater

    hotwater Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    I’ve turned down plenty of women over the years for various reasons (mostly because I didn’t want to cheat on my girlfriend) but there were at least of couple of them that to this day I think back and say WHAT THE FUCK WERE YOU THINKING ASSHOLE – SHE WAS PLAYBOY BUNNY MATERIAL :(

    Hotwater
     
  7. Rangle

    Rangle Member

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    I bet you were thinking "yeah, but its gonna hurt like a bitch to get that penicillin injection"
     
  8. hotwater

    hotwater Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    I’ve been fortunate, no STD’s :cheers2:


    Hotwater
     
  9. rayraygirl91

    rayraygirl91 Member

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    My boyfriend turns me down like half the time I ask, usually because I'm really horny, and I've usually already got him off atleast once. The only reason we don't the first time always is that I take alot of time to warm up and we've been at it for a while which really turns him on, and he's too close to the end by the time I'm ready...
     
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  10. ElChivato

    ElChivato SeNioR MeMBeR

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    ok so one time me and my boyfriend were in his closet and i was kinda tipsy and it was before we ever had sex with each other. and we were sooooo damn close to it! and he wouldn't do and he said it was because he didn't want our first time to be in a closet or when i was kinda tipsy. and i was like gahhhh! but i got over it. lol. it still totally sucked though. i had never been in such a situation before.
     
  11. 420twentyfour7

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    I have yet to meet a woman that didn't have sex with me after telling me she wouldn't on the first night. This is just somethin they say, if your suave enough you can fly right by it and easily have her that night. Theres plenty of times where a girl has said no sex and I just reply no of course not but we should get some alcohol for sure lol. Chicks don't want you to think of them as sluts, and I don't so ladies it's ok to have sex on the first night, and if there is alcohol you can have somethin to blame it on.:cheers2:
     
  12. aFoolOnaHill

    aFoolOnaHill Proper Villain

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    "If pussy was a stock that shit would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it... It would PLUMMET!!"
     
  13. Carlfloydfan

    Carlfloydfan Travel lover

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    I don't think so, though it is a small possibility.

    I have been turned down by the (now ex) gf a few times. It is no big deal, it can happen the next night.
     
  14. stacy lulu

    stacy lulu yeeeaah buddy

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    I hate being denied ONLY because I hardly ask for it and when I do, I get denied most of the time :(

    I felt embarrassed one time when I was making moves on this guy and he clearly wasnt in the mood, so I figured ok thats fine.

    Next night we were drinking and I still was a bit in the mood and I got denied a second time, I was a little hurt but okay with it

    then I waited 3 days and tried again and got denied.

    3 times and you're out lol. My instincts were telling me he was sleeping with another chick and it turned out I was right

    its been a while since I had sex (12 days shut up) lol but sex is what ever to me now. I get in those moods. I actually rather be really turned on and masturbate now
     
  15. MaxPatlick

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    I turned down a girl once.. sorta.. Well, if you change your mind mid-thrust because you find the person unattractive and you know that you you're definitely incompatible relationship wise and therefore continuing with the sex act would probably be a mistake, does it count as turning her down?
     
  16. Therese Aline

    Therese Aline Slave to the man

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    SO it's ok for you not to come?
     
  17. MaxPatlick

    MaxPatlick Member

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    ya, that aint cool.. Tell him to put in some overtime for your satisfaction!
     
  18. baloon

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    ummm.... i got turned down, well... it was my first crush after my marriage failed... he wasnt up for it, he explained it to me as stage fright or wtvr.... wtvr. although i only expected a one night type of deal and then never hear from each other again. until this day i feel that a fragment of me feels uncomfortably unwanted and unattractive, and... etc.
     
  19. Therese Aline

    Therese Aline Slave to the man

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    Yeah, I'm sure he wouldn't be too happy if he got you off and then you said 'well I'm done, what are you looking at me for?'
     
  20. stacy lulu

    stacy lulu yeeeaah buddy

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    I wouldnt put up with that. Tell him to not get so excited or tell him to do stuff to you when you're ready, eventually he'd get turned on again
     

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