Making Friends

do you think you make friends easily?

Or do you think you come off as a snotty peice of shit?

 

i get along with people easily. too lazy to transition from pleasant acquaintance to friend most of the time though.

 

i make friends fairly easily if i'm comfortable. if i'm uncomfortable i get shy and sometimes that comes across as snobby.

 

IRL, people prefer to talk to my wife because they think she is more interesting. I agree.

 

Me too... I think people get the wrong impression of me a lot.

 

i'm quite shy, so it takes me a while to get talking to people and i rarely turn acquaitances into friends as iminmyunderwear said. i only have about 2 really close friends who i would trust completley. then i have several people i can have a laugh with at work and the odd chat etc and then people i say 'hi' to and thats about it. i'm pretty lacksidasical about the whole issue of making friends tbh.

 

It takes about a month for the other person to figure out how neurotic I am.

 

I'm a rpetty easy going person.

I think most people who meet me find me pleasant and easy to get on with.

After we get to know each other a little, this may change. They may think that I'm a wanker, but i believe that they would still say it's pretty easy to get to know me.

I'm approachable, sometimes a little argumentativer, but generally an easy guy to get to know.

 

I make friends easily despite coming off as a snotty piece of shit.

 

I am afraid I come off as a snotty piece of shit.

But that is becase I have "gate keepers", and most people can't get near me.

In truth I am a very good person.

 

i think a person can do/be both

they can be a snotty piece of shit to people who they instinctively don't like and easily make friends with others they feel a kinship with....

 

I don't make friends easily.

I am an asshole

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edit: oh, sorry, I am a dick.

 

No worries, I'm all of the above.

But people find me funny so they think I'm playing.

 

Navajo Indian Proverb: If you want to know what you are like, look at the things you dislike in other people.

Ouch.

 

i'm fat now?



actually, this is very true. i really can't stand people who act similar to me. of course, that's not too many people, and i can't stand most people, so there are plenty of traits that i don't have that i also don't like.

 

I'm s fairly open minded person and easy going, nice qualities to make friends in a quick manner.

 

I have to disagree with this.....

I dislike my father's aggressive nature and quick temper, not because I have it but because it has hurt me in many ways...

I dislike dishonesty, not because I'm dishonest BUT because i am honest and feel if i give you respect enough to be straight with you, you should do the same for me...

that indian proverb reminds me of parent's/teachers telling their kids that they get picked on cause the other person is jealous....

sometimes that just aint the case

 

I am shy, which probably comes off as snotty. I don't mean it to, but i have a hard time talking to people.

 

thats what you think

 

i get along with most people and can make friends pretty easily...but secretly think they are fucking morons who should be locked up