Through my personal experience, I've encountered many women who avoid looking into each other's eyes while they're having intercourse, let alone while they're doing oral sex. I only found one of my exes who looked into the eyes without any concealment. But with others, despite asking for it, they did not do it or it was noticeable that it made them uncomfortable. For me, looking into the eyes during the act increases arousal, which is why I asked for it. My question is then: do you look into the eyes or are you like most of my exes?
Early on I was told that my eyes were as nice as my tits. I feel it is so much of the whole package as emotions and feelings are conveyed through eye contact. I feel that looking into the eyes releases even more passion! Perhaps because I started quite young, so no societal aversion? I think if some girls and guys feel down deep that they are doing something “wrong” that they are more apt to avoid eye contact because they have shame? Even though I am in a lot of group settings, I like it when the guys rotate a bit so I get to have eye contact with each of them at some point. So yes, I would look into your eyes!
Great point Jenna, I absolutely agree! That connection with the eyes is so powerful and it builds on connecting the rhythm adding more passion. Hey, isn’t there a song… The Look of Love- ABC
The answer for me is YES, I love making eye contact especially when one of us is getting off. Looking into his eyes cranks me it up even more. I like your whole post but I'm responding (mostly) to the emphasized parts. With my Baby and closest friends, emotions (our feelings for each other as well as the sex) are huge for me. Sex is a high percentage of emotion. Physical pleasure of course! but that goes to the brain where mental, visual and emotional senses all connect and explode and cascade all through us. Many people believe that only men are 'visual' but that is wrong, a lot of us girls feed our lust with our eyes just like you guys do. And feeding each other eye to eye is fucking wonderful.
Well... it's no surprise to me that Jenna and Lena are all about eye contact. I didn't expect anything else from them because I've read their stories. But let's agree that not all women are like them. I have already given up convincing my wife. She is a hopeless case
Thank you for saying it. Sometimes I forget that there are women who feel the same way we do. Especially after struggling with almost nothing, trying to make my wife more open and unwilling
Oddly enough, I'm not a fan of a woman looking into my eyes when she's sucking my cock. I'm very happy letting her look at whatever she wants. I do enjoy fucking a girl on her back and watching her face and eyes as she accepts her impending climax. The looks change but I do have one friend that doesn't want to be watched, especially when she masturbates in front of me. She prefers I get a close up of her fingers or toy at work. That said, she loves to watch me go down on her and she loves to watch me when she is initially penetrated. She likes to see it go in. Same thing for anal which I do with my fingers. It's harder for her to see that but she lifts her head and tries to see herself take it. And finally, she gets soaked if I strip her in the hotel room, bend her over at the waist in front of the table near the big mirror and take her there. She watches herself get it. Sometimes we talk about it when we're eating at the restaurant before we go to the room and one time she had no panties on and the brown dress had a very visible spot when we left. It came off quick that night. So did she....
I always make eye contact with my men, I feel like they get more excited which just makes the sex better.
I can understand that and I'm not really big on staring up at him when I have his dick in my mouth. Though I do like to look at him every now and then because I love to see the pleasure on his face.
Years back with my best GF; she, whom I was completely wrapped up in, on the odd occasion she was on the edge of the bed, on her back with knees up, she would look intensely into my eyes with the most horny of facial expressions. (Chemistry between us was huge, such that people commented on it as soon as they came into the room were were in). It was as though she was getting into my eyes, into my head (emotionally I guess she was), and we didn't break eye contact until just before she came. I can 'see' her eyes again now!! Never have I had a connection like it with anyone else. We were very heavily sexually charged together. But that eye contact was something huge.
My first serious girlfriend pushed me to make eye contact while we were fucking and especially while cumming. It made the experience so much stronger. It wasn’t easy early on but well worth it. One of my favorite experiences was being masturbated and having an orgasm looking into the eyes of five fully clothed people, male and female. Never even knew their names.
Eye contact is amazing. Makes sex feel way more intimate. I had an ex tell me: the way we would look into each other's eyes while you were inside me made me feel like I was the only woman in the world to you. Ok, a little intense, but nice she felt that way. One of my favorite videos is a video of one of my exes giving me a bj because of the way she was looking at me when she took me all the way inside her mouth. She never broke eye contact. So sexy.
