Okay so you're with a solid Rooster or Chicken. Life is good you have your honey and they have you, you fuck like crazy and all parties are happy with the arrangement, next thing you know, Crap go fuck! You or you honey/beef cake have let themself go. Where one you had a gorgeous 120 pound man/woman you now have smoemone who's gotten complacent and .. larger. NOW are you justified in saying something if it bothers you?
Excellent point, Retro. When a SO gets depressed, turns to food, it's usually because they are bored with their partner and are too honest to cheat and too nice to dump their banal ass. Keep it fresh and you have nothing to worry about.
I guess theres always the chance that the OP has just had his partner say something to him, and he's getting advice on how to react... And some people do the opposite to what Zoomie mentioned, i've dated girls who hardly eat when they are depressed but as soon as they find a bit of happiness they can't stop.
Retro - Wow, that was pretty direct. Sorry If i hit a nerve. Maybe, it's one of those things that I've always wondered, more so that need to deal with at this time. Hooray for Hypothetical questions!
This woman is smart. If you cant talk about it and start to do something about it, then this is probably the case. True love sees passed this, and will communicate with each other to help the other person out, or if both of you have gained weight, to encourage each other to make a difference. CachedOut
Tell her you're not gonna eat her pussy if you have to lift up a fat roll to do so. Great incentive to lose weight. I certainly wouldn't want to suffocate in thigh meat.