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Left wondering

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Lunatic_Fireball, Jul 21, 2004.

  1. Lunatic_Fireball

    Lunatic_Fireball Member

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    Hey guys,

    This is the first time I've ever actually did the posting for insight and advice, so if I leave anything out please forgive me.

    My girlfriend and i have been going out for a little of 6 months. She really is a wonderful girl. We hang out quite a bit and everything usually goes well. As well as it can be in a relationship...hehe. I will be the first to admit, I'm not the easiest guy to put up with, which I've been trying to work on(wish me luck there). This girl really is a wonderful girl..she really is one of the most caring people I know, and she seems like she would do anything if someone needed something. I read through a lot of our conversations that we have had on the computer last night and I can tell that she cares about me.

    Recently we've been hanging out a lot again and it seems kinda like I may be boring her. Do you guys ever go through stuff like this? I really like here a lot, and I don't want to hold her back if she is bored with me. Do you guys have any advice on any of this?

    I've had a hard enough time in the dating area already...I know how it feels to be taken advantage of and used, and just not liked. I've also lost enough people in this life...family, friends, general people. I really am afraid of losing her. I am pretty sure this girl likes me though. I just think I'm starting to bore her...any advice at all. I really want to show her I like her, but am at a loss of ideas.

    I could be totally wrong at all of this, maybe she just needs some time away from me for a while.

    Please help, or give me an idea if you can,

    Cody
     
    Lunatic_Fireball, Jul 21, 2004
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  3. scarlettchasingroses

    scarlettchasingroses strawberry tart

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    uhh....don't you think you should be asking her this....?
     
    scarlettchasingroses, Jul 21, 2004
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  5. Sera Michele

    Sera Michele Senior Member

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    I agree, but I will try to go into it more.


    I think that maybe you should tell her how you feel, and your concerns. Discuss where you want to go with the relationship, and see if she is on board. Commuinication in any relationship is key.
     
    Sera Michele, Jul 21, 2004
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  7. PureInnocence

    PureInnocence Member

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    Maybe ask her in casual conversations some things she likes to do or has always wanted to do. Then surprise her by doing them with her.

    I'd love it if my bf were to do that.
     
    PureInnocence, Jul 21, 2004
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