Ladies, is this normal girl behaviour?

So I met this girl a while ago, like-at-first-sight sort of thing. We hang out every weekend as much as we can and every day we get the chance to. We kind of have a thing. I asked her out a few days ago (1-2 months after we started hanging out). We get along wonderfully, and she says she likes me etc.

She said the other day though that she didn't feel comfortable being 'official' because she said it made her "feel nervous and i don't know". She just got out of what seemed like an abusive relationship. I was fine with this and whatnot. She says she doesn't want to be in anything official for that reason, and that 'we have the whole summer all the time to hangout' so she can 'get to know me better'. Ladies, is this like a good-guy test? Is she slowly going to pre-dating-dump me? Is she just gonna lead me on for a while and drop a bomb?

She seems very genuine when she says it and we get along so very well, and have tons in common, but we're both nervous as heck around each other. I know she likes me, or my company at least, because of the smiles she always gives when she sees me.

Well Ladies n Gals?

 

She probably doesn't want to get too involved until she knows you better. That's what she told you. Why make a big mystery out of it?

 

Yes, this is normal. A lot of women want a commitment quickly, but a lot also don't. Seeing as you think she recently got out of an abusive relationship, I wouldn't find her reluctance abnormal at all. Being able to see each other a lot over the summer provides a good way for you both to feel comfortable about getting serious. Sometimes taking relationships slowly is the best way, and patience can pay off. So, if you really like this girl, get to know her and see where it goes.