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Kinda New Here, Need Advice

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by RENTfan87, Sep 15, 2008.

  1. RENTfan87

    RENTfan87 Member

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    Ok, so hi, I'm a new member, been here like 2 weeks, & I have a question for everyone. I didn't know whether to ask this or not, but everyone here seems very open & honest (lol), so here goes...

    I have had a moderate foot fetish since I was 13. Bare feet would always turn me on for some reason. Like when I was in grade school & high school, I kept a mental record of all the girls in my class that I'd gotten to see barefoot. When I'd masturbate, I'd always think of girls' feet. By the time I graduated, I had seen all but one girl in my graduating class barefoot at least twice (and FINALLY got to see that one girl barefoot at her grad party that summer.


    I think I know why I have this fetish: Up until I was 18, bare feet were the only "nudity" I had ever seen in real life. I was kind of a latebloomer in that I didnt get my first kiss til I was 17, didnt get to fool around until I was 18 with a girl at a campground. And she let me suck on her toes & it turned her on BIG TIME. I never told her how much I enjoyed it, though lol ;).

    I actually just lost my virginity back in Feb. to my then-gf. I did in fact tell her of my fetish, & she let me suck on her toes a few times. Unfortunatley, I could tell she wasn't all that into it.

    So, am I weird? Are there any girls who actually LIKE this? (i.e. toe-sucking, footplay, etc) Have any girls on here ever had their toes sucked? ANd if so, let me ask: Did you like it or think it was weird? I need to know that I'm not alone! lol

    Thanks!
     
  2. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    Your not alone, your fetish is one of is the most common.
     
  3. sophieclair

    sophieclair Senior Member

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    Yeah if you can learn to give a good foot rub your problems are all solved. Every girl I have ever met loves a nice foot rub. I don't think it is weird, everyone has something that they really like about the opposite sex.:D
     
  4. RENTfan87

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    Thanks to both of you!

    I just wish more people were more accepting of me.

    I also wish I could find a girl who loves having her feet played with as much as I love playing with them, but one step at a time, right? lol
     
  5. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    I like it but I don't like it every day.
     
  6. sophieclair

    sophieclair Senior Member

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    Yeah if she'll get used to it and love you for it.


    Tiffany:D
     
  7. Shale

    Shale ~

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    Yeah, it is like everything else, you just have to find the person that is compatible with your sexuality.

    I am into feet, but not exclusively so I don't know if it is really a fetish. I like to incorporate it into total lovemaking and altho I love to massage feet, I also need to massage the rest of the bod. I also lick feet and suck toes, but it is not necessary (My recent fuckbuddy can't stand to have his feet touched, so I sucked other things and was quite happy with it. ;))

    Now I do frequent a male foot fetish site and that is how I know I am not really a fetishist. Altho I do much of what they do, it is not compelling - I can do without it.

    The point is are you truly a foot fetishist - must you do foot play in order to enjoy your sexuality? If you are like me and make it just one part of the total body exploration, most ppl can accept a foot massage and a little licking toe sucking in addition to attention to the rest of the bod.

    Now if you are hardcore focused on feet you may have to look a while to find a girl who can accept that extra attention. Most females are not into fetish, it is a guy thing. But quite often they accommodate their guy's kinks.
     
  8. RENTfan87

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    No, I enjoy other parts of the body just as much ;).

    I do, however, prefer the girl I'm with to be barefoot during sexual encounters (which so far, has happened 100% of the time).



     
  9. RENTfan87

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    Winter's coming, which means its getting colder around here, which means I won't be seeing too many pretty bare feet for awhile :(

    PS: Does anyone else have any opinions on me? lol
     
  10. RENTfan87

    RENTfan87 Member

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    I am SOOO glad the good weather's back here in Ohio, plenty of girls' sexy feet on display :)
     
  11. Kama

    Kama Member

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    Don't lose heart, my wife loves it. I can get her wet without touching anything above her knees.
     
  12. RENTfan87

    RENTfan87 Member

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    Hey, thanks, Kama! :)
     
  13. Kama

    Kama Member

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    Heres a good one:

    Get going on some missionary action, then bring her legs together in front of you so her knees are up on her chest, like you were gonna put her feet over your shoulders and go to town, only you bring her feet together in front of your face and give her a good tongue job on her feet while you give her a good fucking. Grip her ankles hard, Bite her soles and the inner arches, suck the toes, lick between the toes, all while giving it to her slow and deep.

    Its awesome.
     
  14. RENTfan87

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    If I ever get to have sex again, Kama, I'll remember that lol

    Thanks!
     
  15. NikkiLou6387

    NikkiLou6387 ~peace~

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    i love having my toes sucked and giving foot jobs. feet are hott!
     
  16. SlimSunny

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    No, you're not weird at all. At least, not by my standards.

    Your post actually sounds like something I would write. In fact, I can still tell you which girls in my high school I saw barefoot, and under which circumstances. And I still keep my eyes open for barefoot girls whenever I'm out, and will try to talk to them whenever I see them. Nothing motivates me to overcome my inhibitions like a beautiful barefoot girl.

    But, like Shale was saying, don't think of yourself as having a "fetish." You don't.

    The technical definition of a "fetish" is a sexual obession with some inanimate object, to the exclusion of other forms of sexual stimuli. Feet are not inanimate, and it sounds like you are like me. You love barefoot girls, but you can still be aroused by all of the more "conventional" forms of stimuli.

    So, yes. You are perfectly normal and healthy. And there are many men out there just like you.
     
  17. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    that sounds AMAZING.
     
  18. IWantTo

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    Do women ever catch you staring at their feet? Just wondering.
     
  19. RENTfan87

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    Well, colder weather's here, fewer girls showing off their bare feet :(
     
  20. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    of course you could come to florida, it's still hot as hell here.
     
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