Ohand- so you all know- I'm a girl. When have girls usually had an orgasm? By what age? Or at least... when are girls capable? I'm a bit confused.
Hi Skdfdf, welcome to the forums from another newbie! ;-) Well I'm a guy so I am not an expert here, but I believe that girls are capable of orgasm from a very young age, indeed much younger than you are now. I have read articles of women recalling orgasms from as young as 8 or 9 years old, and possibly even younger. You are still young and there is plenty of time in your life to experience these things. You possibly don't know your body well enough yet to have worked out exactly what works for you and what doesn't. But that is part of the fun of growing up. Don't focus on this too much, just go with the flow for now.
I was just curious. I mean... I remember this time when I was younger... Some pedophile (I swear... >__>; ) used to try and teach me how to masturbate. This is when I was say...10 or 11? Ohand, this is online. Butyeah... He used to try and guide me through it. I was curious, so I listened to him- did what he said. I never orgasmed, though. And... Don't pester me about my age- but my boyfriend has attempted to make me orgasm. Did not work. Unless of course I just don't know /what/ to expect in an orgasm.
I won't even comment on the pedophile further than to say that I hope he is behind bars right now! And as for his 'advice' I think that he was more interested in his own gratification than helping you. And no I won't pester you about your age and having a boyfriend, that is your choice. I'm hoping that your boyfriend is a similar age to yourself? And if he is then, again, he might lack the experience to be able to help you achieve orgasm. But I think the main problem here is that you don't know your own body well enough yet. And if you don't know how to achieve orgasm on your own then a partner is unlikely to be able to help you achieve it. You really do have a lot of years to work all of this stuff out, and it could be that your focusing on it and stressing about it is what is making it even more difficult to achieve. Almost like when you lie in bed trying to make yourself sleep, and invariably you never can.
I'm aware of that, he was a freak. I was just so curious that I went along with him...even though I knew he wasn't trying to help ME. Mmn, I guess. I'm not really worried about it as such- just curious.
Have you tried searching around in there? You may find a sweet spot which will make you orgasm? But dw about it as you will achieve it sometime
Girls are capable of having orgasms any time. There is no magic "age." Many girls don't experience one until they are much older. While only a guy and no expert on girls, I would recommend trying things alone at first. If you don't know what it takes, it will be difficult for a bf to do it for you. Then he might just get fustrated cause I'm sure he wants to. Try just exploring your body, use a mirror to know all the parts. Many girls learn by laying on their tummy and rubbing against a pillow or blanket.
i never had an orgasm till like 1 week of being with my boyfriend. Everytime i had sex there was no good feeling it was just a dick going in and out of me. I think the reason why i have wonderful orgasms now is because i have a strong connection with my boyfriend and i feel comfortable around him. It might be different for you but for me to have an orgasm there has to be some kindof connection and strong feelings for eachother.
Well; it's more than one week, and he has quite been trying, again and again- quite persistantly. I'm sure, as another poster said, that he wants to... But he just can't. When you have an orgasm- what feeling do you get? I'm curious. We do have a connection, I'd say. I'm comfortable around him... I spend almost every waking moment I have with him. I have strong feelings for him- and he assures me that he has them for me.
Hey again Skdfdf, Maybe what you say is half the problem, that you are both trying too hard and creating some kind of psycological barrier. The more you try and the more it doesn't happen means you or him are bound to get frustrated. You should really try to just enjoy the moment, encourage him to do the same, and let what happens happen. As to what you are likely to feel, that differs in a lot of women. There is no standard orgasm. I think most women would agree that you'd know if you'd had one, but then maybe not. I am absolutely sure that as you grow and get to know your body better you will have a much higher chance of achieving orgasm. So for now just have fun. As long as nothing you are doing feels bad or uncomfortable, be it physically or mentally, then you have nothing to worry about.
alot of girls claim to be capable at 5 however man women have never at 50 thats not to say that they cant most often its a matter of not knowing howor having a mental block that stops them just short another issue is man men use pornos as a guide to how to please women & they end up bumbling fools who only make the girls unconfortable i dont know if youd be confortable with this or not, but perhaps the best way would be to have a close girlfreind your very confyu woith show u? or help you several women id been with had never had one or at least never with a man, however with the right touvch theywere definately able to have multiple (twice in tears & thanking me so much it was embarrassing..lol) at your age its normal though to be still learning how to please yourself, dont worry it will happen chances are u just need to let it, get very relaxed 1st, & dont stop untill you do, push past the limmits when u feel u cant dgo on, go a lil further... good luck & happy orgasms
Both boys and girls are physically capable of having orgasms at quite an early age, although even if boys start to experience orgasms earlier they won't get to have an ejaculation until they're about 11 - 14. Seeing as girls don't have the ejaculatory side of thing to be concerned about, it's just a matter of knowing just what to do. If you are really concerned then I would recommend you either talk to your family doctor, a teacher, or even your mother. The idea of discussing such things with your mother may seem impossible at first, but I can pretty much guarantee you that she's been through the same phase & not only will be able to understand fully, but may well be pround that her daughter is becoming a woman, and what's more, will probably take it as a great compliment that you trusted her enough to confide in her. Remember, to get your parents to treat you as adults, you must first make sure that they're aware of your developing into one. After all, masturbation is a healthy activity, perfectly natural, and nothing to be ashamed of.
you cant really explain how an orgasm feels. All i can say about it is that it feels really really really really good. When you get one you will know. Just give it time you'll eventually get one.
