It's Time I Say Goodbye.

I have been thinking very much about this lately, and I believe it's time for me to move on in my life. I came to this forum for comfort, and shelter, in one of the most difficult times of my life. Alot of things have happened in my life since then. I have made some wonderful friends, I learned alot about myself. Most importantly, I found the love of my life. The woman I want to spend the rest of my life with.

It is time for me to walk away from the Hipforums. I will miss you all, and I will think of you often. Maybe someday I will return. Maybe I will not.

I love you all, and you've been a very important part of my life for the past several months. I don't know where I would be without you guys. But I don't need the forums anymore for comfort or support. I will lean on the shoulder of the most important person in my life, as it should be.

You all have been wonderful. There is no way I could ever repay you all for the things you've meant to me. But the truth is, this forum, while it has brought me many wonderful things, has also been very dangerous to me as well. It has nearly taken away all that matters to me, more than once. It is hard to convey your true feelings on a computer screen. I have been misunderstood many times, which is truly understandable. But it can never happen again.

It is okay, I am happy. The woman I love is going to be with me soon, and she will fill the space in my soul that this place has for so long now.

I love you all. Thank you for everything. I will remain in touch with my true friends, you know who you are. I will remain reachable, through pm anytime you want to talk. I may brouse the threads every now and then. But you will not see me again on this forum.

Goodbye everyone.

-Tony

 

IF you were leaving, which you're not, you wouldn't have made this post. Out of everybody I've ever known to leave they never said they were leaving. Even the ones that repeatedly made these threads didn't leave until long after they stopped talking about leaving.

So I'll see you in a few days/weeks.

 

Okay.

 

you aint goin no where

i aint sed u could go yet

 

Point proven. You felt the need to respond. That's what keeps everybody here who says they're leaving.

 

Tony, relationships are hard (this is why I prefer male friends, shoes and chocolate instead) and feelings are easy to wrongly interpret in writting typing whatever. Hang in there and make sure you guys are understanding each other's thoughts correctly. It's not your sole responsibility to make everything in your relationship right or assure 100 percent of all expectations are portrayed correctly, it takes two. Before you doubt your ability to communicate make sure you evaluate other's.
You're a caring guy and sometimes when chicks get angry or annoyed it is their way of asking for some space or perhaps she needs time to think alone and doesn't know it.
Hope all works out. Lot's of hugs

 

Tony, don't leave!

 

Thanks. But Bella, there is nothing wrong in my relationship, that's the point. I want to devote all my energy where it belongs, not on some website.

 

farwell -i hope you move on to bigger, better things

 

Nah, it's just time for a new sn.

 

bye tony
i wish you the very best, and much love~
may all your days be filled with love and good things
but yeah you'll be back in a few weeks

 

toodles, have fun, good luck

 

I don't believe in saying goodbye.

That being said, good luck to you, and I shall see you on MySpace and messenger.

 

I agree but people will just tell you no to log on ... they dont understand your need to "quit"

But good luck..... all the best!!

 

what i don't understand is why people make a big deal out of comming and going.
everything in life comes and goes
so why should it be such a big deal when one of us gets a wild hair to do so?

=^^=
.../\...

 

Have fun

You will be back.

 

He has been called by the almighty father. Is anyone going to help him carry the cross? Dont worry he will rise again in 3 days, and fly to heaven, and we will all have been forgiven

 

I think it is the addictive crowd that does that.

 

Oh fuck it. I'm not going anywhere. You guys need me too much.:juggle:

 

Hahahahahahahahaha!!!