And I feel light hearted, relieved and a little sad that it didn't work out. Falling in love with someone through text messeging was simply too hard. We couldn't bring more to the table at this point, so we decided to just be friends. I'm looking at this as an opportunity to pursue someone else whenever that someone else decides to show up in my life. Next time I want to be with a girl. I've a theory that I am truly happy, content and whole in a relationship when I'm with another woman. I've had two boyfriends recently. Now time to have a girlfriend so I can compare the experiences. I'm just relieved it was mutual. That he didn't believe I should be in a relationship right now, and that we both needed more than daily text messeges in order to be happy. Mab