i advise to all to get to know someone at least 3 moths before making any major relationship decisions. i met my *EDIT* EX fiancee and less than a month together we got our own apartment and in 2 months we were engaged. I kept saying to him "is this the real you cause his is the real me" and he assured me so. Then he started stealing, lying, doing hardcore drugs, and verbally abusing me and throwing things. He eventually freaked out and bent my arm so bad my humorous bone broke and popped out. I've had a surgery already, and have to get another. He is also currently in prison for the charges. So lesson learned: Its sweet in the beginning, but get through that three month honeymoon stage. find out who they really are, and let them get to know the real you. first impressions are the worst, cause, in my opinion, its usually false advertisement. i don't want to offend anyone, these are strictly my opinions. thanks for listening
