Is Your Man Allowed To Just Ask You For a BJ Whenever????

Do you allow your man to ask for a BJ whenever he wants? Do you normally fulfill his request if he asks???? Or does your man know better than to ask for one when he wants it??? Does he have to wait until you feel like giving him one?????

 

OKAY. HANG ON HERE! lol

How else are we suppose to get a blow job???

Its not wrong to ask in my opinion. I do recognize the lack of emotional connection in asking for a blowjob - which is why women don't like it - but is it wrong? Nah.

Ask away fella's. Its a numbers game

 

Ask for it sometimes, but let me offer to do it most of the time. If I'm actually interested in the guy (which I have to be for clothing to be removed, kindof a requirement for a bj), I'll offer to do it 9 times out of 10. I actually get kindof frustrated when a guy asks for it all the time (like my ex) because it's like they expect you to do it, rather than enjoying it for the special act it is (having a guy go down on me is special too) or really appreciating it.

 

I don't like when my man ask for it, I like to just do it, if he deserves it!!!

 

In my book, asking for it is the SUREST way NOT to get it

If I'm in the mood, I'll let him know

 

You Go Girl!!!...I totally agree!!!

 

My boyfriend never really asks. I can just tell when he wants one and I'll do it for him if I can. They same goes for him going down on me. We are just able to tell what the other wants and when they want it.

 

I am allowed to ask for one anytime I want. I expect them much less often.

 

he can ask all he wants....


just doesn't mean he'll get it :X


My boyfriend is very respectable with this kind of thing, he'll take it if its offered and hardly ever asks. I know he enjoys it so I like to do it for him. Hes a good b/f he deserves it.

 

why, spank you

I just think that if its done wrong.....it can turn into me "servicing" my man. It should be about pleasure and love, not me feeling ordered around

Plus, like you said, they don't always deserve it

 

He can ask whenever he wants because I thoroughly enjoy it. I guess that makes me weird, huh?

 

I think its a personal preference thing

 

The Golden Rule . . . . hehe

 

I seldom ask. I was once told never to ask because if I did I would not get one. I have spent a shit load of hours trying to coerce with out asking since.

 

well I go down so they go down, simple really.. equal rights n all that

 

I tell my husband if he wants one, just to ask for one. I have no problems obliging.

That's not to say that I never just give him one without him having to ask, but if he's feeling like he could use one, then ask away. It turns me on either way.

Peace.

 

He usually doesn't have to ask

*giggle*

 

my boyfriend has never asked me for one. i usually go down on him anyway if we're fooling around or having sex, but those are all situations where he can return the favor or please me in a different way, and he has always been so good about that.

but honestly, i dont mind giving without receiving(like if im on my period). i think asking would take the fun and kink out of a spontanous bj. i can read his mood, and if im up for it then he doesnt have to ask

 

That's when my hubby gets the most oral action. *lol*

 

my girlfriend has done it once and may or may not do it in the future...but i think if i pressured her into doing it outta nowhere she wouldnt like that too much...how shed react i dunno but i dont think id do it unless i was joking anyway...i dont think shes all that crazy about it...