Is this what a BJ is supposed to feel like?

very inexperienced here, I have only received a BJ from one woman.

All she did was move her head back and forth. No spit, no licking, and some teeth.

I tried to direct her, but she would have none of it. Really pissed me off.

Anyways, is that normal? To just go back and forth with no variety like that? Have i been porned out?

The reason I ask, is because I have stopped seeing this woman, and have been invited over for a "movie" by another woman Im seeing. just wondering what to expect as far as feeling.

 

I've always thought blowjobs kinda sucked. After hearing about them non-stop in high school they were incredibly disappointing.

 

I think a lot of guys get crappy blowjobs because of poor communication in general and stereotypes about oral sex causing hesitation, not to mention general hesitation and stereotypes about really embracing the raw lust inside and also respecting that there is technique to any art and the human body is an exquisite instrument

and hell NO that's not what a GOOD blowjob is supposed to be like! If you can see a better blowjob in pornos then why are you asking, you know they exist and can happen. there's blowjobs out there that put the best porn you've seen to shame

 

Ok I'm a woman and what you are describing doesn't sound good.

From what I read sound like shes not into......

I'm not going into detail about how I give a blow job, but I can tell you it's a lot more then you described lol

 

i've never cummed from a bj or really felt anything from them.... i have a hard time cumming with a partner for some reason... don't really bother me though cos i like to see em squirm.

 

For me, a bad blowjob is when she asks if I want her to take her teeth out (right in the middle of it).

*shudder*

/yes, it happened to me once.

//hard to concentrate after that.

///crackwhore

 

Girls, Just remember three things to give good blowjobs:

1. Suck hard
2. Go deep
3. NEVER use your teeth.

Teeth ruin any blowjob. A man's dream is a girl with a pretty face, big lips and dentures removed.

 

I respectfully disagree, sir.

They should work on keeping their fangs retracted.

Gums = laziness.

 

Good to know, everyone.

Know I'm nervous/excited for this "movie" date - I hope with a real BJ I dont bust within 30 seconds!

 

teeth can be good, if she uses them right

 

It is (like most things of a sexual nature) a balance of trial and error and good communication
For some it is to give/recieve a good hard sucking action
For others a softer licking action is preferred
Mutual appreciation and satisfaction has got to be the ultimate goal - meThinks

 

Well... its not supposed to hurt lol

 

So, since I have yet to know what a "real" blow job feels like, is there actually a sucking/suction feeling?

 

Mark, just go out and get your dick sucked by a different girl. Theres as many different blowjobs as there are girls. Some of them are awesome, some of them are not.

oh and uh.. be respectful

 

Are you fucking crazy? Teeth are the best part. No wonder you stick your dick in dirty holes all the time. your pee pee is too sensitive for action.

 

they say the mouth is dirtier than the anus...




OP, what makes you so certain that this movie date will end in blowjobbery?

 

Because, through the course of text, sex got brought up, and she told me she swallows.

 

No not at all that would make me fall asleep hopefully when i woke from an experience like that she would be gone for good.
Had some average ones but that is just terrible sorry you had such a bad experience when you have a real good one that thought will dissapear and you will hangin for your next blowie and if she is a swallower that just makes a great blowjob flippin awesome....

 

Trust me you will know a good BJ when you get one. And as your companion is going through the motions if it feels good tell her. Grab her by the hair and tell her right there baby. Let her know what you like.

 

The best oral I had was from a guy who lost all his teeth in a motorbike accident as a teenager. When giving oral he simply removes his dentures - no teeth to scratch against.