is this too much info

ok so i have this lover for about a year and a half
and once in a while i do something to piss him off
or him to piss me off
and we take breaks...(usually last a month or so)
and wen we get back together (start messing around again)
he always ask if i ever messed with someone else during our break
i always usually lie n say no....(as an ego boost for him...hes a bit of an insecure person)
i have a couple lovers (4 to be axact not countin him)
and i alternate between them every week or so....
and well ive used all 4 during our most recent break
and our break is about to end
and the dreded question is going to come up
if i messed with someone else during our break?
and im deciding wether or not to tell him the truth or just lie to him again
can someone help me out and maybe try n answer the q of wether ornot i should tell him the truth
or just lie to him again???


and just so u know i believe in free love
and i have yet to meet a lover that has meet my complete sexual needs.....
so i have a couple of lovers
but this one in particular is the longest kept one about a year and a half or so

 

i encourage you to bring honesty into the relationship and see if it thrives.

or try being single or dating or another relationship since this one keeps ending for a reason.

 

ive tried ending it but it just usualy ends up bein another break
and we end up back together (aka. messin around again)

we cant seem to end the relationship
we always find a way to get back together

 

Why would you tell the truth? Who would that help?

Why would you lie? Who would that help?

 

if you want to end it, just do it.

 

You really couldn't get sex or a boyfriend without being full of shit?

If you think you could, I dare you to try it

But really, I don't care to give you actual advice, as it seems to me you are just going to keep rotating lovers that don't know about each other and getting back with someone you can't even keep a stable relationship with.

 

well hah shit id be utterly pissed if i found out if my lover had 4 other lovers Im hoping you use protection cause thats just nasty. I would tell him though...see how he reacts..90% he might get grossed out,,,who knows.

and this thing...back and fourth back and fourth..playing mind games with another..."pissing another off" its going to continue. Either get it strictly friends or get in another relationship

 

it sounds to me like your relationship is mostly sexual, in which case it shouldnt matter if you're with other people. be honest. if he cant deal with it, then it will be over for good.

 

You're a pretty smart kid, Duck. I often enjoy your posts, though you have a way of being sharp in two ways at once.

 

so true

 

..wtfiuwtfont..

 

its not nasty
and of course i use protection
(too much my friends say im on the pill, they (my lovers) cant touch me without a condom, spermicidal lube and if the condom ever rips i get the plan b pill the next day)

i believe in free love and satisfying my own needs
one lover simply canot accomplish that for me....

 

i think i might be agreeng with u

 

You're 18. You're too young to be in a relationship. Go out and have a good (and safe) time.

 

always safe
n yes i do have fun
=)

 

Great job on standing your ground! You've got some character.

 

thank you :biggrin:

 

yeah i understand that. you and i have different views. i think its nasty because youll end up getting loose or not "fit" inside and i dunno. I enjoy staying real tight

good for you using protection though

 

i think the only way you get lose is by having larger than normal objects in there
ie.objects other than a dick in there...or a dildo thats an exact replica lol



n protection is always a must
i have walked out on one of my lovers for not having a condom
even tho im on the pill
i do not and will not take n e chances
i dont care how "safe one method of birth control is"

 

still nasty