I have started to notice that chicks don't seem to think kissing is a sexual thing, and that seems to be why these young girls will just stick their tongues in anyone's mouth...
i can not imagine kissing not being a sexual thing, well except when you're kissing relatives... kissing for me is a sexual thing, and its one of my favourite things
I can tell you this much. For me personally, I''ve never been one to just kiss some strange guy at a party I just met or something. Nor have I slept with someone I just met. For girls who do, it's fine for them, but I have to know someone a little bit before I just go swapping spit.LOL. I usually don't kiss a guy on the first date. Now, if it's someone I know a little better, I bend this rule, but the porno type kisses stay in my pocket until I'm ready for the rest.LOL
Then again, I've only ever slept with one person, but I kissed (and only kissed, nothing more than that) quite a few in my younger years. I don't know, I think sometimes it can be just, well, a kiss for the fun of it.
of course it is..... could you imagine sex without kissing or kissing without having sex? case closed.
I've kissed 2 more than I've had sex with. The first was the first kiss and I really only did it out of peer pressure/pity. Sorry to say. Actually I think I kissed 3 maybe 4 more. But that was when I wasn't having sex, as well. But yeah I think it can be sensual and not sexual, or just romantic. If that makes sense.
What's funny is that I stole the "porno tongue" thing from that movie The Wedding Singer. There's a scene where Drew Barrymore is discussing what type of kiss to give her husband at their wedding in a church. So, her friend says she thinks tongue would be ok in a church and Drew says something like, "Yeah, but no porno tongue." My best friend and I were watching that movie one day and she started cracking up and goes, "That sounds just like something you would say, Jules."
Its not sexual for me...Ive kissed many who I wouldnt have sex with...to me its more an affectionate thing .
I dont know if its sexual....well, it can be, since it can lead to sexual things. I think a kiss is very meaningful though, and shouldn't be whored around, but saved for someone who you think deserves it.
Kissing for me used to be VERY sexual, but now...no, it's not. Not at all. Of course, I can't even remember the last time I had a tongue in my mouth besides my own, so, french kissing is indeed sexual, but just kisses, pecks on the lips and above the neck, they're just signs of affection.
I see a kiss as something that can be sexual, but doesn't always have to be... it depends on the intent