Is It Wrong?

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by LJDV, Jul 20, 2009.

  1. LJDV

    LJDV Member

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    To leave people you love (family & friends) behind to go after someone you want to be with? (romantically)
     
  2. LauraMay

    LauraMay Rainbow Humper

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    I don't think so. :D

    Depends on age/etc..

    But I'd say if you're over 18 and really love the guy/girl, go for it.
     
  3. metalgypsy

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    I almost did it, till the significant other cheated on me.
    I think that if my family didn't understand, I would totally go off and be with somebody I'm madly in love with. The family that really gives a shit about you, would still be there for you.
     
  4. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    depends on everyone involved. Also if you don't think so then no. There are no right and wrong answers set to anything in life. There are only your answers. You decide what's right and what's wrong for yourself, and your world
     
  5. "!"

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    Nope, done it before will do it again. Why? Cause the people I leave behind love me.
     
  6. LJDV

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    What do you mean? That it's all right because the people you leave love you? :confused:
     
  7. "!"

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    Yes. Wouldnt you do whats best for the people/person you love ?
     
  8. AquaLight

    AquaLight Senior Member

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    Up to you.
     
  9. Greengirl

    Greengirl Senior Member

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    well it is not necessarily to leave them to be with someone....right
    i mean it is not very normal to stay until forever with your parents. i will shoot myself if at 23 i am still living here.
     
  10. LauraMay

    LauraMay Rainbow Humper

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    I think there's a bit of confusion here...

    Exclaimation Mark, you did mean you wouldn't leave behind the people you love, again, because they love you. Didn't you?
     
  11. Jimmy P

    Jimmy P bastion of awesomeness

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    If your friends and family love you, they will want you to pursue what makes you happy.
     
  12. LJDV

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    Yes, but what if the person you love lives far away, and your family doesn't want you to leave. So it may be best for you and your lover, but not for your family.
     
  13. "!"

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    Nope and yep.

    The question was ' Is it wrong ( to leave ) '. My answer was no.

    as for the rest of it..the confusion..its meant to be there. (given the subject matter)
     
  14. nesta

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    the question is too simplistic to give and adequate answer, so i'll just say that no relationship of any sort lasts forever...either you eventually go your seperate ways, or one of you (or both) passes on. but it never lasts forever.

    you are the only person you have to live with for the rest of your life, so do what seems right to you.
     
  15. "!"

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    Thats a new question.

    However, you have answered it.... and the answer is confusion.

    enjoy.
     
  16. LJDV

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    I thought it was a pretty adequate question. :(
    You really don't think that two people can be together forever?
     
  17. nesta

    nesta Banned

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    perhaps if there is an afterlife or someone has discovered a method of becoming immortal. otherwise all relationships inevitably end due to choices during life or the advent of death.

    that said, the only person you HAVE to live with for the rest of your life is yourself.

    and the question is inadequate because its presented as being very black and white, when in reality there are bound to be scores of factors at play.
     
  18. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    jesus made his apostles leave their friends and family without so much as a word of warning. and they didn't even get to sleep with him. :(
     
  19. nesta

    nesta Banned

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    bullshit, they all did. why else would he allow the creation of new holes in his body?? parrrrrrty!:cool:

    plus being bound to a cross.....kinky:eek:
     
  20. I'minmyunderwear

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    no wonder he kept force-feeding them wine...
     
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