...if only one of you cums? OK, obvious question, but mainly it's leading into: how important is it for you that you have an orgasm during sex? Would you feel short-changed if you didn't have one?
i think it is still sex if both people dont orgasm but it is nice.. i always make sure my partner is taken care of.. wether i orgasmd already or not
My mate said it was just mutual masturbation. I don't know. I've never cared that much about orgasming during sex, just wondering if that's weird for a guy.
I've yet to meet a male that didn't care that much about orgasming during sex... However, I have had the misfortune of knowing far too many males who didn't care that much about whether the woman orgasmed. As for how important it is to me, there are occasions when I am just not all that in the mood, so I'm not going to get there, but I still want to have sex for the emotional connection... But most of the time, yeah, I expect him to get me there several times before he gets close to an orgasm! If he didn't care about getting me there, why should I care to bother getting him there?
It depends on your point of view or what your goal really is for sex. Are you more into giving or recieveing ?
Not sure what you mean, to be honest. I like to pleasure people. I don't mind being pleasured, but it usually leads to them wanting me to pleasure them, usually right after I've cum when I just want to have a shower and go to sleep.
Have you found your clitoris? That's quite a big trick if you haven't. Otherwise, I'd probably suggest something about Kegel muscles, but I have no idea what they are.
