Is it rude?

All the people in the world that uses smart phones while they're with friends are cunts then. It happens everywhere all the time. But this is more about disappointment in a friend at many different levels. I've seen this syndrome a lot. Where relatoinships are hard to maintain over time as their habits, and behaviors, and quirks come out. It's quite simple really....everyone has the right to do what they want.

 

to be fair, even nice guys can get frustrated. if a guy never gets to have sex, i don't care how nice he is, he's going to lash out a bit.

and he didn't really even call her a ****, just said she sometimes acts like one.

 

Tell Her To Buy Herself A Set Of Headphones / Ear Buds,

Or She's Going To Have To Hit The Shoe Leather....



Cheers Glen.

 

Yeah, but if a guy is only pretending to be nice in order to get laid, he is not really a nice guy. And in my experience every guy that claims to be 'too nice' is only feigning friendship in order to get some and that is not real friendship.

But you are right in that acting like a **** is different than being one. Of course I have had like 4 Gimlets so my mental faculties are not at their sharpest.

 

thats why "nice" guys don't get laid. women see through that shit.

 

So it's alright to "see through that shit," yet still continue to use that person for whatever you can get out of them? Really?? This is why some -- possibly even most -- women are deserving of that dreaded "c" word.

 

i'm sure there are some huge assholes out there that feign friendship in order to get some, but i don't really think that's how it usually goes down. i think a majority of "nice guys" are actually nice guys who realize that they are really into one of their friends and become frustrated with having to hear said friend talk about her sexual exploits with random douchebags. or similarly, they realize right away that they are into someone but are forced to settle for a genuine friendship with the misguided hope that it will eventually become more, again becoming frustrated when they have to just sit and listen to everyone else's sex talk. but even in that case, i wouldn't call it a feigned friendship.

but then i've got some alcohol in me too, so this may just be a stupid conversation we've gotten into.

 

haha, right. using people is admirable if women do it, and assholish if men do it.

 

I've got some alcohol in me, three, but not enough. Certainly not enough to kill what's inside.

 

of course its not. Since I started seeing through that shit I let the nice ones down quickly and go on my merry way, so I can't really speak for other women..

what I don't understand is why do guys put up with that? I understand the hope of getting laid but honestly you're probably more likely to get laid if you just call her on her bullshit.

 

Thanks for the advice. Duly noted.

 

Yeah, that is not what I was saying at all.

I like it when someone is direct with me. When I met my boyfriend he was like "Hey, I'd like to have sex with you" and I was like "Cool, lets do it"

If you are just pretending to be friends with someone in the hope of getting laid, then you deserve what you get if they don't put out for you.

 

OK... so I will just ask her for a blowjob. That should go over well.

 

I actually can't speak from much personal experience because almost no guy has ever been interested in me for friendship or anything else. But I would certainly never lead someone on if they were interested and I wasn't.

 

lol, yeah that is not the way he put it. I believe his words were more like 'I want to make love to you and pleasure you all night long" Things like that work a lot better

 

And if you really think most women are deserving of the title of ****, then I am sorry but you are obviously just hanging out with the wrong women. Just like when women say that most men are assholes.

Of course I believe that most people are basically good which I realize is not a view shared by most people around here.

 

wish i could rep you again. I agree. I've made the exact same women and assholes analogy on here a few times.

I don't think things would be so difficult if it were a woman you connected with. Perhaps the fact that you find her dumb and annoying is adding to the frustration.

 

that kind of makes it harder really. if you have nothing in common with her you can just move on. it's when she's already rejected you repeatedly but she keeps contacting you to hang out and you don't want to say no because you always have a really good time with her that it's really difficult.

 

you need a louder stereo in your car...

 

Funny you should say that, because I just got a new stereo in my car yesterday. Prior to that I didn't have a stereo because the other one was broken. So it looks like that problem has been resolved.