Is it possible?

Can a guy and a gal be JUST FRIENDS?

This discussion started today at work, and many of the guys said that deep down they are friends with women because if given the chance they would want to KNOW them biblically. Is it possible for a friendship to last without romantic love getting in the way?

And ladies, be honest. Those male friends of yours... if you had the chance, would you do the bango tango with them?

Honestly, I have never had a female friend that I didn't feel at least some sexual attraction for. It wasn't like I couldn't keep my feelings in check, but if the rule book was thrown out, I'd jump at the chance to make it more than a friendship.

 

I would say no, if two people really get along well, then sooner or later one is going to find the other attractive.

 

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That's really interesting. I have yet to meet one guy who didn't at least find SOME sexual attraction to any female friends he had, yet girls that I've talked to about this claim they have had friends that they were definitely NOT attracted to in that way...

That is just fascinating how the two genders are running on a different set of code...

 

yeah..I'm with pansy...i also have one guy friend who liked me at first, but we became so tight we were like siblings and all sexual feelings totally disapeared

 

You honestly don't think he would love to be with you if conditions were right?

 

i beleive a gay and a girl can just be friends. most of my friends are male and the thought of doing naything in that way with them just sounds weird. yuck. there are a couple of my male friends that i guess if given the chance i might be more with, but not all. some are just friends, wonderful, sweet, lovale friends without the interference of sexual things.

 

yeah, of course a girl and a guy can be friends without any sexual tension, sexual thoughts. In high school I had like a dozen male friends that I never considered dating, never would've wanted to do anything with. We've fallen apart since then (since most of 'em moved away for school) so my only real male friend is gay and thus, not interested in me.

I highly doubt any of my male friends in high school found me particularly attractive. I was overweight and unsure of myself, timid and blended in with the walls.

 

it is possible, but there must be some kind of sexual feelings - expecially if you are 16. all that us 16 year olds (males at least) think about is sex.

 

I think it's totally possible, not all relationships have to be sexual. I have lots of guy friends and I have no desire to fuck any of them, they're just my friends.

 

I like to think guys and girls can just be friends but I had two very close guy friends, one who I considered a best friend who said they had 'fallen in love' with me- eeek ! It was actually horrible because it felt like they only wanted to be friends with me for one thing all along But i still have guy friends who i'm pretty sure only want to be friends with me.

 

yes, it's possible. i've done this for a very long time.

 

Notice how all the girls think it is possible, but... guys? heh...

 

NO..
It is not possible for a guy and a girl to be just friends!!
The sex part always gets in the way!! (hehe, I've seen that movie.. more then once)

But honestly, I really dont think it works out alot of the time. I have about 8 or so guy friends, and I'm pretty sure that all but one think of fucking me... (not trying to sound conceded, but this is what they tell me).

I have found the only way that a chick and a guy can be REALLY close FRIENDS, and nothing more.. Is If both of the individuals has a spouce, and they are in a serious and TRUSTING relationship. Thats the only way it can work, and most of the time jealousy becomes a factor and then the friendship is gone.

But if two people are single, then it never ends up working.. because one always ends up feeling a bit more passion for the other.

If only one person is in a relationship, then jealousy often comes into play..

thats just my two cents..

 

well, shit, i only have one female friend i wouldn't fuck. does that mean i can't be friends with girls?

 

of course it's possible......it isn't as much fun....but it's possible

 

stupid question, ofcourse they can, most of my closest freinds are female, some sure i wouldnt mind if it became more, under the right conditions, but most i wouldnt ever want things to change & theres no sexual crap getting in the way.

 

Maybe so, I would never fuck any of my few chick friends.. And I would fuck the guys most likely.. Yet, I have alot more guy friends then chick friends.. that doesnt make any sence.. For me, it always ends in heart ache.. or worse..

Also I tend to keep chick friends alot longer then guy friends (chicks I'll br friends with for YEARS and Years.. And guys we end up drifting over time...

 

i find that's true with ALL friends. some are aroudn for along time, some drift away. but i've had very close non-sexual friendships with women i find sexually attractive. but it wasn't ruined by that. i've had very close non-sexual friendships with men i've found attractive.

 

And I understand that we can control our urges and make it work, but I still think guys in general have an underlying attraction that forces them to hold back to some extent.