I don't seem to understand girls. They all tell me I'm so nice and sweet, but none of them can seem to fathom the idea of being with me. I even ask around to see why other people think they don't like me, and no one can give me an answer. I think it's my looks and they tell me I'm cute. I think it's my personality and they say I'm cool as hell. I don't understand why all the asshole get the sweet pretty girls. It's so hard to deal with. Some have even said they liked me, but still for some reason don't want anything to do with me. I'm so alone all the time. I just wish there was a simple way to stop the pain.
It could be your looks. WHile I don't know what you look like, many girls are extremely shallow. If that is not the case... Look at why people elected Bush. He makes bad decisions, but he's a strong leader. Girls want a strong leader. You have to appear strong and in control and not be shy and withheld and second guessing yourself. You need to have more self-confidence There's this great degree of self-confidence just short of cocky that I find EXTREMELY attractive in a guy.
word... second guessing yourself and why you're single isn't attractive. Nor is drilling women on why they won't date you (I know that's not your intent, but that's often how it comes across)
Let them come to you man, you don't need one to make it, it is just all in the mind. In most cases they find you cute but they will tell any guy that just to avoid hurting his feelings, but by lieing it does more damage. Dude you so don't need them.
i know a guy like this.... and he is sweet and cool and nice and all that crap, and hes very easy on the eyes too. but he does this thing whre he will change and morph himself for each new girl he likes. for example, two months ago he liked this girl from texas and was wearing boots and a lot of denium. this week he likes a 'certain somebody' and is sporting rebelious clothes- lots of black and ripped jeans. i would like him a LOT more if he was just his own person- i dont want to date myself in male form. just find out who you are and go about your day like normal. if you want a relationship, then stop looking. you will find someone much more meaningful if you find eachother naturally.
