Inter-racial sexual attraction?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by HoldenC, May 29, 2005.

  1. HoldenC

    HoldenC Member

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    I was watching this programme, and these black women were going on about how unattractive white men are to them. I was just wondering what you people thought?

    Do white men like black women?
    Do black men like white women?
    DO white women like black men?
    Do black women like white men?

    This isn't supposed to be about racism, i'm just curious. What do you people think? I personally find the lighter-skinned black women to be very attractive...
     
  2. kjhippielove88

    kjhippielove88 color + rhyme

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    im very attacted to white guys
     
  3. HoldenC

    HoldenC Member

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    And you're black? That's cool. Loads of black women near me seem kind of racist, and are quite vocal about how they view white guys like they're not "real" men.

    From now on, we should include what race we belong to.
     
  4. all_rhodesian_reject

    all_rhodesian_reject Sonskyn Elvis

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    i've never been attracted to black women....
     
  5. kjhippielove88

    kjhippielove88 color + rhyme

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    first i belong to the human race. from my dads side im arab and from my moms side im black, irish, and navajo
     
  6. HoldenC

    HoldenC Member

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    No need to get all hyperactive on me, buddy.
     
  7. matthew

    matthew Almost sexy

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    I am glad about inter racial sex , because i would not be around otherwise.

    Personaly i like white women and mixed race women.. not that black women are not atractive or anything , but it is rare for me to see a black woman i am atracted too...

    If there was a programme about how white people found black people unatractive there would be a outcry i would imagine.
     
  8. HoldenC

    HoldenC Member

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    Exactly! That's the problem I had with it. Double standards.
     
  9. velvet

    velvet Banned

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    What about yellow people? ;) Me likes!

    I don't know what it is, but I really really like asian guys.. I think that there are beautiful men in every race, but if you would line up the most beautiful men of each race I'm pretty sure I'd pick the asian one.

    I'm a white girl.. my boyfriend is asian (half chinese, half indonesian).. Check my gallery for our pics :)

    Been dealing with a lot of black men lately btw (through my work) and I must say that I'm starting to appreciate their looks more and more.. esp. when it's hot and they are wearing a tight shirt.. good bodies :D With this group btw (west african refugees) a white local girl is a price possesion..

    Anyway.. loads of purdy people on the planet..
     
  10. matthew

    matthew Almost sexy

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    I would never go as far as saying 'i find x race is unatractive' because there are lovely looking people in all races . It is more a cultural and social problem anyway, imho not a lot to do with the actual colour of the person..even the ladies within the film (i don't know) may have actualy been attaching 'blame' for the ills of the white/black devisions and blamed all 'white' people possibly wanting to rebel against it.

    I think spouting such things is unhelpful in a lot of ways..it is not as bad as 'lynchings' so i suppose a bit of 'i don't find white people atractive' is erm ok.

    I am surronded by white people so this may have effected my choice in what i find 'atractive'..i understand it but can't seem to fight it.
     
  11. Super_Grrl

    Super_Grrl Crazy love

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    I think men are gorgeous, skin colour is not an issue. Some men might be more attractive than others, but it would be about other things, like I like x person's hair better than y peron's, or z person has a nicer body than x person, and so on. It wouldn't be because of their race. I've done the inter-racial thing on more than one occasion, and it never even really twigged with me. I just liked them, liked their personality, you know?
     
  12. SkeeterVT

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    My parents were an interracial couple. My mom was African American and my dad was Native American. For the first 11 years of my life (I'm 52), my mom's home state of Louisiana refused to recognize their marriage -- and had I been born in Louisiana instead of New York, I would have been branded an "illegitimate" child.

    In 1967, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled that laws in 16 states, including Louisiana, that banned interracial marriages were unconstitutional. While the ruling came too late for my parents (They divorced in 1964), Louisiana could no longer call me a "bastard."

    Being biracial, it's impossible for me to have a relationship with ANYONE that doesn't cross over at least one racial/ethnic gap.

    I thank God that I came of age during the heyday of the original "flower children" of the '60s -- part of the first generation of white people to openly rebel against the racist ban on interracial unions. And I thank God for the wonderful rainbow of hues that make up the population of our planet.

    --Skeeter
     
  13. luv

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    I'm not bothered about race either, although i do find myself very attracted to black guys, I don't even know why, maybe because the culture always had a fascination for me. But I had a relationship with an African guy once and I have to say, the cultural differences were huge and I don't know if I could lead a good relationship with a black guy - not because of the colour but because of the mentality. I think it takes a lot of tolerance and open-mindedness to be able to cope with the cultural differences..........
    ..........still, black guys are just yummy. Hmmmmmm!
     
  14. kjhippielove88

    kjhippielove88 color + rhyme

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    lol i wasnt
    :D
     
  15. SkeeterVT

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    Oh, boy. . . Your closing line reminds me of that hilarious "Black Boys/White Boys" number from the 1979 film version of "Hair." To this day, that scene still gets me rolling on the floor, laughing my head off.:D

    -- Skeeter
     
  16. HoldenC

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    Why is that? It's not the person's fault, is it?
     
  17. SkeeterVT

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    No, I'm simply stating a fact. In a society that for centuries frowned upon interracial relationships, it's impossible for a person of mixed racial background to have a relationship that completely conforms to that racist standard.

    I'm not blaming my parents at all for defying that standard. Quite the contrary, I thank God that they had the courage to do so at a time in our country's history when it was DANGEROUS to do so. Otherwise, I would not be here. Thank you, Mom. Thank you, Dad.

    And thank you, God, for proving that love doesn't respect such barriers.

    -- Skeeter
     
  18. stoney69

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    well said kj, we belong to the human race - nevermind the rest. inter-racial screws is the way to go ..some day, we'll all be the same color!
     
  19. innocentpoison333

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    Doesnt matter either way I go for personalities more then looks.
     
  20. HoldenC

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    so are you trying to say that people who don't have kids with other races are cowards or something? like finding a person of your own race to be attractive is a bad thing? weirdo.
     

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