I'm with a 14 year old

I posted this in True Confessions but I figured I would post it here also. I'm 20 and with a 14 year old. I have taken his virginity also. Do you guys think this is wrong? I was 17 when we started dating and he was 12.

 

that is weird and some what disturbing.

 

That is fucking awesome!

 

Ew. You were 17 and he was 12? Lol i bet he couldnt even cum then, or grown pubes.
Yea thats pretty wrong i'd say, but i bet he aint complaining!

 

we didnt have sex until a few months ago

 

I see my post where I called you a pervert was deleted.

I take that back.


"That is perverted behavior"

at 20 you are an adult.

 

It would be very disturbing if the guy was the oldest. Bt ut since the girls is oldest ....then..... its' a little weird.

 

Think how much better the sex would be if it was with a fully "grown" adult man. I'm suprised you havnt dumped him tbh.

 

It may also be illegal in some jurisdictions for a 20 year old woman to have sex with a 14 year old boy. I know of one woman (a schoolteacher) who went to jail for having sex with one of her students. Statutory rape goes both ways.

 

Yes, yes I think this is wrong.

 

Are you saying the wierdness levels depends on gender?

Dating this boy would be a little worrying, and would need to be dealt with utmost sincerity and understanding on your part. Having sex with him? That's a problem right there. What happens if you decide to move on or break up? How's he going to deal with that? I'm sure your little relationship is secret...maybe that's how he'll deal. Blackmail you for sex.

I'm 18, and I feel a little twinge of guilt when I think of girls I know who are 15 when I jerk off. Think about it...could any of your same-age friends even be attracted to boys of his age?

 

14 will get you 20

im sorry, but thats a fucking CHILD, thats disgusting... im 21 and i cant even imagein dating someone under 18 years old, ugh

 

I wonder if this has anything to do with the concurrent thread about pedophiles? Adding a gender slant on the situation certainly does cause less hate doesn't it? Unfortunate, but yeah... still not really "right" he's just a child!

 

In the other thread, people were calling for the blood of paedophiles. The OP was only 19, so closer to the age of those he lusted after(still rwong, I know), and hadn't done anything. Here, the OP is 21, and has actually slept with a 14 year old. No calling for blood, although people still say it's wrong. Would the other posters from the other thread have the original poster of this thread castrated, imprisoned and tortured?

 

Yes I think it is wrong. At his age, he is in no way capable of entering into the type of relationship you have entered into with him, and no, I am not solely talking about sex. A 14 year old BOY is not emotionally mature enough to understand things the way you, as a 20 year old ADULT are. You, as the ADULT in the relationship, have coerced him into assuming an adult role to be with you, and therefore taken something from him that should not have been taken....

 

Question: What would people consider an acceptable age range or difference? If the older person was, say, 18, what would be the youngest that person could date/fuck? I'd give a 2 year range on either side, until the younger person was 21, and then I think anyone can fuck anyone, as long as it's 21 upwards.

 

No way I will ever do that.

 

Yeah thats really wrong, he is still growing as a child

 

Honestly? I think it's very disturbing that you're 20 years old and you've been intimate with a 14 year old. All I know is, if that were MY son, I'd press charges before you could blink an eye. I'm sorry, but he's a child. You're an adult. You mess with fire, you're bound to get burned.

 

I totally agree.