I'm with a 14 year old

I'm 20 and I'm dating a 14 year old. He has even lost his virginity to me. Is this wrong?

 

I don't think so. My sister is dating somebody eleven years older than her. They've been going out for five years now--she's almost 20 now. I don't find it weird at all.

 

Yes. Pervert.

 

nah thats fuckin sweet, i wish i had a 20 year old girlfriend.

 

^ i concur

 

I read that wrong, and thought you meant your sister was dating a nine year old...

 

14 is so young ....i couldnt imagine, let alone taking his virginity.

 

Haha, no, no. She's 19, he's 30 now.

 

So it is

Its pretty fucked up, yeah.

 

like i said in the other threa,d i think its rather nasty and disgusting personally

 

14?!?! His dick has to be 4 inches. Pervert

 

Haha!^^

I feel like it's wrong just because if you were a 20 y/o guy with a 14 y/o girl, that would be wrong in nearly everyone's book, but for some reason it's ok when the girl's older...? Seems like a double standard to me.

As to what you could ever find attractive about a 14 y/o boy is another question entirely. 14 in male years is about 5 in female years...blech.

 

I don't necessarily find it wrong... Really uncommon, strange, sure... Different strokes for different folks, etc..

But I honestly don't know how there could be that much emotional or intellectual connection...

I mean, I'm 17 and I generally go for older guys because I just can't connect with guys my own age on any level, for the most part...

 

Im with moonjava ~ im 17 & guys my age around here, ugh there is just not any connection at all...

In my opinion, I think it's wrong because if a man was 20 with a 14 year old girl...that would be just weird and plain wrong. So, I believe it to be the same way turned around.

I advise you to find someone your own age...not because i said to because you are your own person and its your choice...but for legal matters and also...emotional matters.

 

Hell, I agree with you there, I cant get along with guys my age, theyre too clingy and puppy love, I like older, theyre mature and responsible. Hell i find myself liking more guys in their late 20s and 30s now. If theyre attractive and have a good personality...

but a 20 yr old and a 14 yr old? too young IMO. Hes probably telling his middle school friends about you... "hey man! Im going out with a 20 yr old!!! yipee!"

 

I've never went out with a chick younger than me, nor have I ever bragged about the age of some I went out with. (Heck, I never even told the kids when I was in middle school.) I've always been a couple notches above the boys and girls at my school in the maturity department though.

 

lol sunshinechild is so emo...




blazed thought

 

sunshine is hot

break up with him woman.

 

Did you have a bad relationship with your father?

 

No, actually. I love my dad. I had a bad relationship with my peers.