I'm socially incapable.

It's really pathetic. (I guess I'm abusing our new name right about now).
But yea, especially if I like someone, I can't form sentences nor look them in the eye. Today I sat next to this kid I dig in a two hour meeting, and all I could get out was "hey, where's the garbage?" I hate it.

 

I'm like that... then sometimes I get into the state where I intentionally don't want to talk to anyone.

 

I hate the huge majority of people. The only thing that lets me stand spending time around people I don't particularly like is beer.

 

i agree with the beer comment

 

Thriced...

 

man, i know exactly how you feel

 

Thriced (We can say that right ?)

When i'm with people i dig but don't know too much, i usualy tend to start making obscure theories and that stuff ... It usually annoys them

 

i'm capable around strangers..people i don't know are easy to be around cause i can be anybody i want to be, on any day...depending on the person, sometimes i get intimidated by certain people... but i get really stupid around people i like too...
drinks make me love everyone though
i've gotten alot less shy...but i'm still weird at times...

 

haha, i used to be extremely outgoing right up until, well, this kid from that meeting.
but naturally, drinks do help =)

 

join the club.

 

yup, me too. obviously, most of us feel that way though. maybe if you keep in mind others are feeling the same-even that person you dig, you could use that to aleviate the tension and just say the first "stupid" thing that pops into your head. saying stupid things with no remorse is a very free feeling, man. oh, double ditto on the alcohol thing. probably not a great sign.

 

Oh yeah, I have that problem as well sometimes. Especially with people I don't know very well and who seem interesting.
I'd see right through your social incapabilities though.

 

why do you think most of us stay on these damned forums?

 

what is this, your seventh new account?

 

after living in a new city for awhile, i've started to analyze myself. i feel now that i am completly socially incapable to. i was pretty good for awhile, but now i feel like an ostrich with his head in the sand
i can get along pretty well once the ice is broken, but if no one talks to me, then i dont talk to anyone.

 

I'm pretty quiet in general I guess, other people have to break the ice =)

 

I'm not shy around new people.... i just usually never have anything to say. i have a two track mind of music and drugs.... if those subjects aren't coming up in the conversation, then I'm usually at a loss for words.

 

I'm awfully talkative around new people... the key to not being shy is not giving a fuck... I don't really care what impression I make or what people think of me. People seem to love me just for that alone...

Be free, and dance through life... being shy is silly... people are too interesting.

 

that is me. i'm shy as shit. well i guess that doesn't make too much sense but it sounds good. i'm just really shy i can't talk to or approach people. it's just something that i have real difficultly doing so... idk

JOn

 

A flat, static character in your own life? How blase.