I'm more than a little confused: bartender kisses me on the lips

Could it be just flirting?

This is the strangest thing that happened between me and a woman ever before. It's hard to describe...not the kiss itself but the circumstances.

We've been flirting for a while and last time I asked (months ago) she said she had a boyfriend. I've been fantasizing about making babies with this woman for months now.

We met at a bar I used to frequent, lost touch for a while...and then she was recently hired to work as a bartender in my poolroom.

I was done playing and came by to say good-bye. She literally reaches across the bar (in front of the manager, Andy) and kisses me on the lips. And it felt NATURAL, but at the same time I'm like...WTF? This is NOT normal for the circumstances.

Why am I having a hard time believing that she might want to...

Bah! Ummm...I'm speechless Is it possible she's so flirty that a kiss doesn't mean that much to her under the circumstances?

 

she must be ovulating.

 

Dude, I'm very fucked in the head right now.

 

maybe she just likes you

no need to be shocked

 

drink some absinthe.

 

If she does, it's the gutsiest move I've ever had a woman make toward me.

It was just out of the blue, the circumstances didn't call for it, it's an upscalish place, she was in the busiest part of her shift, her boss was 3 feet away, the place was PACKED...wow.

I have a hard time believing it even happened. A much harder time believing that she wants to take it further.

I don't know why. Under different circumstances, with a different girl- I'd chalk it up as an automatic win.

But she's pretty much everything I could ask for...or so far it seems.

 

well then it must matter

just don't let her know that too soon

I bet you are personable in person

 

That's what I thought. I needed confirmation from an unbiased party.

I acted like nothing happened and yet I felt then (and still feel now) like I swallowed a bag of ice.

I can be pretty personable and a smiley dude, yes. When I'm comfortable and interested in people or what's going on around me...

Man! I'm dizzy. WHAT a woman.

 

she wants to stuff her face with your halal kofta

 

yea, I would hang with Cherea

fuck you Nesta, and the neighborhood you came from

 

She might just get it. This chick is Scarlett Johansson and then some.

WIN.

 

my first instinct in such a situation would be that i accidentally payed for my beer with a $50 instead of a $5...

 

you did, and that was me

 

show her your dingy.

 

It's in a state of high alert.

 

i think it sounds like she likes you.

or thinks you're completely gay, and it wouldn't mean anything.


i think it's that she likes you.

 

Female opinion! Points! :biggrin:

P.S. She knows I'm not gay.

 

Sounds made up.

 

Yup. You got it!

 

Fight! Fight! Fight! Fight!